How to Stop Being Afraid of Disappointing Others

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Dearest hearts those of you who are empathic, who feel the heartache, disappointment and fears of another as if they were your own, have adopted a coping mechanism, living in fear of disappointing others or living for the approval of others, that is stifling your growth as an individual. Although, feeling the pain of another is an advanced ability, the coping mechanism of living for the approval of others, causes you to regress. Instead of following the guidance of your heart and becoming the empowered being for good that you desire to be, you’ve followed the delusion of the mind and allowed yourselves to be terrorized by the idea of not being good enough.

No, that which is causing you harm is your attitude about who you are and what you have to offer

We understand that failure is an unpleasant consequence that may be encountered on the life journey. Yet, failure, like all things, provides a unique learning opportunity so failure is not the problem. Even if you failed, again and again, it would not pose a problem. No, that which is causing you harm is your attitude about who you are and what you have to offer. As a sensitive soul, you have a second sense about others. You can pick up on their energetic output so you know what the other person may be feeling. Their discouragement becomes yours, their disappointment is felt within your being and their frustration with their life situation may suddenly seem as though it must be your responsibility. When you falsely assume that you can be responsible for another person’s life choices you’ve moved out of the empathic state of being into the “I have to assume responsibility for others” state and this is a danger zone.

Your gift of empathy makes you aware of what others may be feeling but it was never meant nor does it require you to fix another person’s situation

Your gift of empathy makes you aware of what others may be feeling but it was never meant nor does it require you to fix another person’s situation. Instead of seeing yourself as fixing their situation or helping, you must see it for what it is. Interfering or hindering another person’s ability to grow. So why then do empaths fear they will disappoint others and/or hold themselves back so that others can shine? Because instead of living the life journey they assigned themselves, they’re trying to live someone else’s. Instead of focusing on what they need to do to progress, they’ve gotten caught up in the trials and tribulations of another and they’re now living to please someone else instead of living to enhance their own life journey through exploration and advancement.

The empath in you lives in fear of being perceived as selfish, but it’s time for you to learn how to ask for direction from the Divine rather than trying to keep the peace by doing what others want you to do

If you’ve found yourself holding back or taking a path that feels good to someone else but not to you, it’s time for you to get out of your own way. Instead of determining your path by reading and absorbing the energy in the room, you must make your own way. The empath in you lives in fear of being perceived as selfish, but it’s time for you to learn how to ask for direction from the Divine rather than trying to keep the peace by doing what others want you to do. The fear that keeps you up at night is that you’ll somehow disappoint those whom you feel beholden to and that disappointment will then become your own no matter how hard you may have tried to please. Empaths, please understand this truth. Nothing you do will ever be good enough unless you’re working to satisfy a personal goal. If you continue to live your life chasing the dreams of another, you will never feel fulfilled. You will always feel like a failure and you will never succeed in pleasing those whom you are working so hard to satisfy. You cannot do the work for another person, you can only do it for you.

You cannot bring someone else to a better place successfully, they must do it themselves

When you feel overwhelmed and as if you are always disappointing others it’s time to take a step back and ask yourself, “Why am I doing this? What do I hope to gain? And what level of satisfaction am I hoping to receive?” If you have no personal goal attached to your mission, if your goal is to make so and so happy, then you’re transferring their goals into your life in an attempt to make them feel better about themselves and their life. However, you are not them. You cannot bring someone else to a better place successfully, they must do it themselves. They cannot do it for you and you cannot do it for them. Each one must do it for themselves. Take your attention off of what someone else wants, stop trying to get it for them, you’ll absolutely fail. Instead, place your attention on what you want and do all you know how to make your life better and to bring yourself joy. From your increased state of joy, you become a more powerful energetic being. Your light shines brighter and you’ll be able to help others find their own joy.

It is only when you begin using your sensitivity to find that which feels good to you that you’ll find your way forward into the success you’ve always desired but never thought was possible

No matter how sensitive you are you’ll never be successful at living someone else’s life. You will always fail at being them or doing it for them. It is only when you begin using your sensitivity to find that which feels good to you that you’ll find your way forward into the success you’ve always desired but never thought was possible. Yet, it’s from that pinnacle of success that you’ll be shining brightly and lighting the way for all.

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, is a spiritual life coach, channel, bestselling author and podcast host on Angel Heart Radio who specializes in helping you heal from pain, trauma, abuse, limiting beliefs, and negative thinking so you can become victorious in all areas of your life. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Angel Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom and unending joy.

Marcia will help you release your greatest fear so you can achieve your biggest dream. It’s time for you to be victorious, to heal your heart and transform your life.

Schedule your, thirty-minute Angel Heart Healing Breakthrough mini-session at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/coaching or join the Healing Hearts Community at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/community and be supported by Marcia and other like-minded individuals who are committed to spiritual growth.

 

 

 

 

 

 

How to Overcome Fear of the Unknown

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Dearest hearts the fear of what may come can be seen as justifiable and reasonable but when you live your life fearing that which may or may not come, you deny yourself the opportunity to be and enjoy where you are at this moment. The only space you can occupy is now, therefore, when you fear the unknown, you’re preventing yourself from experiencing joy on any level.

Instead of fearing the unknown before, during and after it’s encounter, the spiritual seeker stays in the present where all is already known

One of the hallmarks of the spiritual life is the ability, desire and commitment to live in a state of bliss or joy. Instead of fearing the unknown before, during and after it’s encounter, the spiritual seeker stays in the present where all is already known. Since they move from a place of known into a place of known there’s no need to lower their vibration by stepping into fear. Fear can only enter your life if you’re trying to make something that isn’t into something that is. In other words, you form a desire for a particular outcome, “I desire to feel happy.” However, instead of thinking happy thoughts or engaging in activities that bring you joy, you start complaining about your life and blaming others for your unhappiness. All the while stating to everyone that you are not happy but desire to be so. Because you’re not a vibrational match to happiness, happiness cannot be attracted to you. Like attracts like so you will attract more to complain about, more to feel sad about and more people to blame for your circumstances. You will not receive happiness but you will receive your vibrational match. Unfortunately, that’s exactly what you didn’t want so now fear enters the picture. “How did this happen to me? This is exactly what I didn’t want. Life always finds a way to disappoint me. I’ll always be unhappy. I don’t know what’s coming next but it probably won’t be good.”

When you are aware of what you’re doing, saying and feeling at any point along the way you become the conscious commander of your life

Coming from a place of darkness dictates that you will receive only darkness yet the unenlightened use that as an excuse to fear. Today we invite you to join the many who have chosen to be responsible for their lives. When you stay present to this moment you’re able to monitor your vibrational output. When you are aware of what you’re doing, saying and feeling at any point along the way you become the conscious commander of your life. Being present to what is allows you to choose the highest vibrational thought and feeling. From this place of elevation, you are busy creating your next moment. When you stand in the space of love, joy and peace with gratitude in your heart you call to yourself circumstances that reflect all that you are.

Pull up a chair and invite fear onto your analyst’s couch. Begin being the most alert observer you have ever known and trace the fear to its root

Fearing the unknown is only possible when you believe that the universe is random and chaotic. Since the universe is both orderly and predictable there can be no fear over future or unknown events because that which is coming is a reflection of or a match to that which you’ve been rehearsing with your thoughts and reinforcing with your emotions. Every time you find yourself becoming afraid of that which may be coming you must treat that fear as an early warning wake up call. Since you will only experience the end product of your thoughts you must go on high alert when you feel fear. However, you will not run from fear, you will investigate it. Pull up a chair and invite fear onto your analyst’s couch. Begin being the most alert observer you have ever known and trace the fear to its root. Ask yourself the following questions about the fear you’re feeling. “Is it legitimate? Is there a reasonable chance of this occurring?” if the answer is no, then be more mindful of your thoughts of doom and gloom. You must simply refuse to entertain thoughts of negativity or darkness. If the answer is yes, then you must follow a different course. Now ask yourself, “Why? Why do I believe this fear? What am I doing that will make this a reality? What could I be doing instead that would help me create a new reality? And why am I allowing negativity to have a stronghold in my life?”

Fear of the unknown can only occur if you believe that circumstances, your life and the desires of your heart are beyond your control

Once you have asked yourself these serious questions you must stay present and in charge of your reality. No one has control over your life but you, therefore, you must stay the course and stay aligned with what is desired as you refuse to consider any thought or feeling that is out of alignment. Fear of the unknown can only occur if you believe that circumstances, your life and the desires of your heart are beyond your control. Since everything is dependent on you and your relationship and reaction to it, there is no unknown element to life. Be present, stay aligned with the highest vibration and trust that everything is working out for your highest good.

Instead of living in fear of the unknown live in faith that the best is yet to come

Instead of fearing the unknown and living your life as though everything is left up to chance, we ask that you begin living your life fully in every moment. When you consciously choose your thoughts and deliberately choose your reaction your life will mirror those choices. Instead of living in fear of the unknown live in faith that the best is yet to come.

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, is a spiritual life coach, channel, bestselling author and podcast host on Angel Heart Radio who specializes in helping you heal from pain, trauma, abuse, limiting beliefs, and negative thinking so you can become victorious in all areas of your life. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Angel Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom and unending joy.

Marcia will help you release your greatest fear so you can achieve your biggest dream. It’s time for you to be victorious, to heal your heart and transform your life.

Schedule your, thirty-minute Angel Heart Healing Breakthrough mini-session at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/coaching or join the Healing Hearts Community at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/community and be supported by Marcia and other like-minded individuals who are committed to spiritual growth.

How to Stop Being Afraid of Change

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Dearest ones the love affair all of you are having with what was is not allowing you to see what is. It’s time to let go of all that you’re holding onto and step out of the grip of fear into the flow of unconditional love. When you begin participating in this monumental act of courage you will find not just the way forward but also your sense of purpose and an overwhelming feeling of joy. Fear constricts but love liberates.

When you rehearse thoughts of doom and gloom or of a glorious yesterday that has been robbed from you, you’re living in fear and from that fear you create circumstances that match your expectations

As you move into this new decade you will be best served by committing to living from the wisdom of the heart. If you look upon yourself and all others with eyes of love, that which you’re looking at will change. The life you’re living and the circumstances you’re experiencing are neutral byproducts of the thoughts you’re thinking. When you rehearse thoughts of doom and gloom or of a glorious yesterday that has been robbed from you, you’re living in fear and from that fear you create circumstances that match your expectations. The events you encounter are not designed to hurt you or defeat you, they are merely indicators of what you’re thinking about and attaching strong emotion to. Since the circumstance has no agenda of its own and is only a reflection of your inner landscape, all circumstances are neutral. They simply are. It’s your reaction to the circumstance that determines whether the event will be positive or negative. In other words, if your input into the circumstance is fear-based or filled with anger then you’ll receive that experience from the event.

You are most definitely more than enough, greater than you realize and capable of more than you’re allowing yourself to achieve at the moment

We advise that you take a step back from everything that is in your life now and re-evaluate. Take an honest assessment of the views you’re currently holding and begin asking yourself the following questions: “What do I gain from this viewpoint? What do I lose by holding these thoughts?” After you’ve established the gain and loss you’re experiencing move onto asking why. “Why, do I need to believe this? or “Why am I unable to believe something more promising?” If you find that you’re clinging to thoughts and feelings that allow you to be safe but not happy we want you to ask yourself if you’re ready to accept more. Ask yourself, “Am I ready to do what’s necessary to make positive changes in my life?” If you’re ready, seek out someone who can guide you through this transformative process. It’s most helpful to have an independent person assist you in seeing yourself as you really are instead of you trying to convince yourself that you’re more than you believe yourself to be. You are most definitely more than enough, greater than you realize and capable of more than you’re allowing yourself to achieve at this moment so having an independent voice cheering you on makes what appears impossible, easier.

No matter whether you decide to move into this decade with fervor or you decide to take it slow, it will be necessary to love all of the different aspects of yourself just as they are

If you’re not ready to allow yourself to step into your fullness, then, begin where you are. Love yourself for all that you are in this minute, accept all that you represent. Be mindful of accepting all of you, this means that you must accept even that which appears unacceptable and unlovable. Don’t get caught up in judgment or correction, simply love what is as it is. No matter whether you decide to move into this decade with fervor or you decide to take it slow, it will be necessary to love all of the different aspects of yourself just as they are. If you desire to change and grow into a more capable version of yourself then you must begin from where you are with what you already have. By loving and accepting what already is, you’re giving yourself permission to become even more.

Change is a natural and normal part of growth, fear becomes attached to the process when you begin judging all that you are as not enough

Change is a natural and normal part of growth, fear becomes attached to the process when you begin judging all that you are as not enough. We ask that you let go of all belief systems that assign negative values and embrace the understanding that you, just as you are, are more than enough. From this place of acceptance, you will discover that change is not only easy,  it’s exciting. Don’t fear change, embrace it by learning to love and accept all that you are in this moment.

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, is a spiritual life coach, channel, bestselling author and podcast host on Angel Heart Radio who specializes in helping you heal from pain, trauma, abuse, limiting beliefs, and negative thinking so you can become victorious in all areas of your life. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Angel Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom and unending joy.

Marcia will help you release your greatest fear so you can achieve your biggest dream. It’s time for you to be victorious, to heal your heart and transform your life.

Schedule your complimentary, thirty-minute Angel Heart Healing Breakthrough consultation at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/coaching or join the Healing Hearts Community at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/community and be supported by Marcia and other like-minded individuals who are committed to spiritual growth.

How You Can Be Happy Right Now

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Dearest hearts, happiness is a choice. It’s not dictated by circumstances beyond your control nor is it something you can achieve when you reach a certain status. No, happiness is a state of mind, a way of being that allows you to feel good about who you are, where you are in your life and what you may be doing regardless of what it is. Your happiness and what’s going on in the world are not related. Today is the day to be happy. This minute is the time to find happiness with all that you are.

If you’re feeling as though things never work out for you or that other people receive the attention and luck you feel you deserve then you’re living your life in reverse

This may sound impossible to some of you but we ask that you stop assigning labels and just get it done. Begin learning to be happy by taking an inventory. Take a moment to look not at the possessions you’ve acquired but at the landscape of the heart. Does your heart feel full of love and goodness or has it become weighed down by bitterness, grief or thoughts of revenge? If you’re feeling as though things never work out for you or that other people receive the attention and luck you feel you deserve then you’re living your life in reverse. You’re looking at what’s happening in your life today as you think about what could have been yesterday. So, in essence, you’re hiding from pain that you participated in in the past and you’re using it to measure how your life is unfolding today. It’s impossible to start a new day with hope and joy in your heart if you’ve ended the previous day rehearsing all of the ways in which you’d been hurt in the past.

If you’re feeling anxious, worried or nervous then you’re living your life before it has had a chance to happen

If you sincerely want to experience happiness instead of just fantasize about it, then you must live in each moment as it presents itself. If you’re feeling anxious, worried or nervous then you’re living your life before it has had a chance to happen. You’ve gotten ahold of a crystal ball and asked it about your future. Then you’re spending all of your time, that could be used making you happy now, trying to create or prevent the future you’ve envisioned within that crystal ball. But what you’re not doing is taking what’s right in front of you and using it to create happiness and satisfaction in this now.

We’re not asking you to stop dreaming, we’re teaching you how to stop hurting

Should you forget about the past? Those glory days as well as those times you regret, absolutely. Should you let go of the future possibilities, the one you desire desperately as well as the one you fear deeply? Absolutely. We’re not asking you to stop dreaming, we’re teaching you how to stop hurting. When you let go of what was and stop obsessing over what will be you’re only left with now. When you have to be present in this moment and all else has been taken from you, you being opening yourself to all that is. You move beyond poor me, sad me, stressed me and hopeless me as you move into “This is me!” This is my life and by staying present to it I can find wonderful aspects that I overlooked previously. When you stop running away from all you’ve created because you’re afraid that it can’t be fixed. When you stop fearing the future because you’ve faced hardships in the past then you step into freedom, into a place of peace and into a way of being that promotes happiness on every level of your being.

Happiness will be yours each and every day if you take the time each day to go within to the quiet space of the heart and express gratitude for all that you have in this moment

Happiness cannot happen without your active participation. Happiness will not become part of your life if you’re determined to re-live the past. Happiness cannot be part of your experience if you live in fear of what if. However, happiness will be yours each and every day if you take the time each day to go within to the quiet space of the heart and express gratitude for all that you have in this moment. When you stay present to where you are now and you acknowledge all that you have in that moment, happiness will have a chance to grow. The seeds of happiness that have been planted in the fertile soil of gratitude will continue to support you even as you move through challenges and face growth opportunities. You may indeed find the path has grown steep but happiness will have become your constant companion no matter how difficult the journey has become.

Being present and grateful for all that is yours in every moment of presence will enable you to live instead of exist and to honor all of your life experiences

In this moment of now. In this space that can only be occupied in the present is where your life is happening. Being present and grateful for all that is yours in every moment of presence will enable you to live instead of exist and to honor all of your life experiences. When you live in the exalted place of this moment, happiness will always be your constant companion.

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, is a spiritual life coach, channel, bestselling author and podcast host on Angel Heart Radio who specializes in helping you heal from pain, trauma, abuse, limiting beliefs, and negative thinking so you can become victorious in all areas of your life. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Angel Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom and unending joy.

Marcia will help you release your greatest fear so you can achieve your biggest dream. It’s time for you to be victorious, to heal your heart and transform your life.

Schedule your complimentary, thirty-minute Angel Heart Healing Breakthrough consultation at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/coaching or join the Healing Hearts Community at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/community and be supported by Marcia and other like-minded individuals who are committed to spiritual growth.

Four Ways In Which the 12/12 Alignment Can Benefit Your Life

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Our dearest hearts we are delighted to share with you about this most auspicious, annual event. The better prepared you are to align yourself the more value you will receive and the greater the blessing that can be bestowed upon you. It’s never that a blessing is being withheld from any of you but it’s always about your ability to receive said blessing. Unconditional love pours forth upon you without ceasing but if you’re unable to receive it, it will be as naught within your life. Therefore, when intense alignments such as the 12/12 gateway occur you will receive maximum benefit by being prepared.

First, expect that you will have a heightened sense of awareness throughout all of your bodies

So let us now examine what you can and cannot expect from this energetic transfiguration. First, expect that you will have a heightened sense of awareness throughout all of your bodies. This greater awareness may express itself as restlessness, the inability to sleep or the sensation of a racing mind. When you experience this state it’s best to get moving. The physical body can only absorb so much energy at a time without becoming overly stimulated. If this happens release the excess energy through physical movement. Then calm the mental body and incessant chatter (that feeling of running in overdrive) by cleansing, grounding and shielding your energetic field. If you have sage or frankincense available, gift yourself some time in the physical presence of either of these scents that cleanse and clear. However, if you have no access to the physical product allow your imagination to create a scent bath and immerse yourself in it until you feel cleared of negativity and excess stimulation. As you are participating in either of these activities refrain from entertaining negative thoughts. You’re not bad, nothing is wrong and you’re not being punished. You’re simply responding as a sensitive being to an increased influx of energy and this requires extra self-care.

Meditation helps you to align with and be more receptive to Divine energy

Second, understand that throughout the year the energy will fluctuate and you can anticipate energy peaks such as what you’re experiencing during the 12/12 alignment and be prepared for them by being diligent with your meditation practice. Meditation helps you to align with and be more receptive to Divine energy. When you’ve allowed yourself to be strengthened and expand prior to a powerful energy stream you’ll be less likely to experience mood swings or emotional melt-downs. If you do feel overly sensitive or highly emotional during this time be proactive by getting to bed earlier so you’ll be more rested, eating healthy, life-sustaining foods instead of empty calories and moving and stretching your body throughout the day so the energy can flow more freely.

If old, worn-out emotional baggage comes bubbling up into your conscious awareness, don’t try to stuff it back down but do take a careful look and only continue to hold onto that which is serving your highest good

Third, remember to take advantage of the increased energy rather than trying to stand in opposition to it. This will allow you to use the energy to your benefit. During intense energetic periods, you may feel bombarded by regret, loss or past failures. You’re not being judged, you’re being encouraged to take another look at your energetic signature. When you move through your life trying to carry yesterday’s baggage or other people’s opinions around with you, you’re unconsciously holding yourself back. You’re saying no to your growth and you’re standing between yourself and your success. If old, worn-out emotional baggage comes bubbling up into your conscious awareness, don’t try to stuff it back down but do take a careful look and only continue to hold onto that which is serving your highest good.

When you allow yourself to be bathed in unconditional love the pretense that you’re unworthy and the false self of, “not good enough,” fade away while the authentic self of, “I am more than enough,” moves to the forefront

Fourth on our list of what can be gained from this alignment is value. If you have been selling yourself short or perceiving yourself to be worthless this enhanced energy can act as a wake-up call for your being. When you allow yourself to be bathed in unconditional love the pretense that you’re unworthy and the false self of, “not good enough,” fade away while the authentic self of, “I am more than enough,” moves to the forefront. Take advantage of the power of the 12/12 alignment by stepping out of resistance. If you feel you’re being pulled in a direction or being asked to show up in the world a different way, you will be well served by stepping into the flow of Divine grace and moving away from the idea of, “I know better.” By surrendering what you think you know and being open to receiving the all-knowing wisdom of the Divine you’ll open yourself to a new level of fullness and life satisfaction. If you try to stay as you are, only frustration and dissatisfaction will be on the road to greet you.

Be you’re energetic best by clearing the old as you open your heart to receive the new

The 12/12 alignment is a powerful time when you can access the energy of the Divine more fully and put that power to work in your life for your own benefit and the benefit of all whom you encounter. Be you’re energetic best by clearing the old as you open your heart to receive the new.

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, is a spiritual life coach, channel, bestselling author and podcast host on Angel Heart Radio who specializes in helping you heal from pain, trauma, abuse, limiting beliefs, and negative thinking so you can become victorious in all areas of your life. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Angel Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom and unending joy.

Marcia will help you release your greatest fear so you can achieve your biggest dream. It’s time for you to be victorious, to heal your heart and transform your life.

Schedule your complimentary, thirty-minute Angel Heart Healing Breakthrough consultation at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/coaching or join the Healing Hearts Community at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/community and be supported by Marcia and other like-minded individuals who are committed to spiritual growth.

Feast or Failure – How To Survive Holiday Gatherings

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Dearest hearts for many of you the holidays offer a period of merry and joy but for others, they represent a time when you may feel unable to fit in and the pain of being an outsider becomes excruciating. You feel obligated to take part in the holiday gatherings but you don’t feel part of the group that’s attending. Pressured to attend but uncomfortable once you arrive, what exactly do you do during the holiday season?

When you’re loving yourself you’ll take the necessary steps to prepare and you’ll arrive in a state of mind and offering the vibrational output that simply states, “I am love!”

We want you to go prepared. This means that you will not spend your days in dread but rather in love. When you’re loving yourself you’ll take the necessary steps to prepare and you’ll arrive in a state of mind and offering the vibrational output that simply states, “I am love!” You, as the awakened one in the group, the sensitive being in the crowd or the shoulder upon which others like to cry must set the example for others to follow. In the past, you’ve been content to drag yourself to the affair feeling awkward or out of place and then you’ve either hidden in the corner, immediately tried to offer maid service to the host or you’ve tried to obliterate all knowledge of the day through drinks or drugs. All of these coping mechanisms are dangerous and none of them are acceptable. Instead of coping by hiding, working or obliterating yourself completely, go prepared.

Your life journey is an opportunity for you to overcome all that’s preventing you from becoming your most incredible self.

It’s not a surprise that the holidays are here and you should not act as if they’ve snuck up on you. Trying to run away from what is, merely brings it closer into your being and causes you to have even more negativity to deal with. Prepare for your life by going within. Learn to communicate with the Divine presence that is in attendance for the purpose of your well-being every minute of the day. Instead of trying to hide learn to become vulnerable by bringing your fears and insecurities to the Divine. Your life journey is an opportunity for you to overcome all that’s preventing you from becoming your most incredible self.

You’re higher vibration will be felt and respected by those in attendance and you won’t be the butt of any more jokes.

Therefore, you must sit quietly and commune with the inner world of greatness that is you. If you feel uncomfortable at social gatherings because you feel you don’t measure up, take the time daily leading up to the event to review a list of all of your positive attributes, spend time with a mirror speaking lovingly to yourself and be your own best cheerleader so that you’ll walk into the event feeling good about you. You’re higher vibration will be felt and respected by those in attendance and you won’t be the butt of any more jokes.

Bring both of these energies through your body to the heart center and then allow them to emanate from you and form a protective barrier around you, a shield of truth and love

Perhaps you’d rather not go to the gathering because you can feel the emotions of everyone in the room and you find this overwhelming. Then you must prepare to attend by cultivating a daily practice of grounding and shielding. To do this effectively, you must allow yourself to connect to the energetic structure of the earth and receive from Mother Earth the ability to renew and restore, then connect with the energy of heaven and offer yourself and all others, unconditional love. Bring both of these energies through your body to the heart center and then allow them to emanate from you as they form a protective barrier around you, a shield of truth and love. If you are met with judgment, censure or a barrage of negativity your feelings of self-love will allow you to stand strong not out of a place of better than but from a place of acceptance. This will allow their own feelings of pain to be transformed into energies of unconditional love that allow them to rise as you have, into the highest vibration of unconditional love.

Being socially adept means that you begin from a place where you feel good about yourself, emitting a quiet strength

Being comfortable in social situations isn’t a matter of being better than anyone else in the room. There may always be people who are better at certain skills than you are. No, being socially adept means that you begin from a place where you feel good about yourself, emitting a quiet strength. From this place of brightness, you earn respect and because you’ve done the work to connect with heaven and earth you will not be bombarded by the unchecked emotional barrage of others. Instead, you’ll be pulsing with peace and others will be drawn to the calm that you’ve brought to share.

When people feel heard, loved and accepted they have no desire to lash out

As you are approached by others, be the love they need. Listen attentively to what they share, be genuinely interested in all that’s of interest to them and allow everyone you encounter to truly feel blessed by your presence. When people feel heard, loved and accepted they have no desire to lash out. The pain they feel dissipates and the love they are is able to rise to the surface and provide even more joy.

Understanding that what you encounter and how you interact with others is determined by how you’re choosing to show up in the world, you’ll take time every day to do the inner work necessary to master your vibration

You may never love going to parties or being part of large crowds but with the proper preparation, you’ll be a success. Understanding that what you encounter and how you interact with others is determined by how you’re choosing to show up in the world, you’ll take time every day to do the inner work necessary to master your vibration. Instead of dreading the event and looking for reasons why you won’t enjoy yourself, be the pro-active spiritual seeker and prepare for an enjoyable holiday by raising your vibration as you swaddle yourself in the life-giving and protective energy of unconditional love.

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, is a spiritual life coach, channel, bestselling author and podcast host on Angel Heart Radio who specializes in helping you heal from pain, trauma, abuse, limiting beliefs, and negative thinking so you can become victorious in all areas of your life. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Angel Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom and unending joy.

Marcia will help you release your greatest fear so you can achieve your biggest dream. It’s time for you to be victorious, to heal your heart and transform your life.

Schedule your complimentary, thirty-minute Angel Heart Healing Breakthrough consultation at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/coaching or join the Healing Hearts Community at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/community and be supported by Marcia and other like-minded individuals who are committed to spiritual growth.

Enjoy Peaceful Transformation With the 11/11 Portal

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Dearest ones, on this day when the alignment creates a column of pure energy we ask all of you to join us in the transformation of beingness. We do not ask that you come in protest or come out of fear but if your heart is calling you forward then it’s time for you to step into pride of place as you take the mantle of service and prepare to lead the world into peace.

If you’re unable to celebrate the prosperity and good fortune of another because you fear there will not be enough for you then stand down, it’s not your time to come forward

Those of you who have accepted the call hear us well. There will be no seat at the table for the ego. No amount of judgment or competition will be tolerated. If you’re unable to celebrate the prosperity and good fortune of another because you fear there will not be enough for you then stand down, it’s not your time to come forward. Spend your days on other pursuits but do not seek to lead this movement of peaceful cooperation. For those of you who have laid aside the heavy baggage of guilt, shame and blame your time is at hand. You’re being called now to make yourselves known. Place your being into the column of alignment, breathe deeply of the holy spirit and bring into your vibrational field the fullness of unconditional love that is being offered to you at this time. The more of you that step into the place of fullness, the greater the ease of transition for all. Yet, those of you who have heard the call must be bold and step fully into the answering place of peaceful transition.

With the help of the energy of the 11/11 portal, you will be guided in releasing and rising above the drama that swirled around you previously

Transformation is at hand and every desiring heart is capable of receiving. However, you must understand this is a spiritual transformation and not a worldly coming of age. When you agree to transform the spirit you’re saying yes to the authentic self that is truly you as you begin letting go of the denser layers of the self. This means you’ll need to hold yourself to a higher standard. You’ll begin operating out of a higher vibrational place and that which appealed to you in your physical awareness may no longer hold your attention. With the help of the energy of the 11/11 portal, you will be guided in releasing and rising above the drama that swirled around you previously. Those beliefs that used to seem accurate have all been brought into question and we advise that you use the power of this portal to let go of each one that has kept you prisoner. If you are to be leaders in the way of heart-centered peace then you must see yourself and others as they really are. Let go of all fear, doubt, lack and judgment. Know that you, as you are in your authentic state are perfect and needing nothing for you are abundant in every way. You in your authentic state must recognize your value and help others to see their own value as well.

It’s time to remove the trappings of the ego, the limiting belief that you could never be good enough or honored enough to contribute anything of value to this world or to have your own needs met

It is to the authentic that you are being called. It’s time to remove the trappings of the ego, the limiting belief that you could never be good enough or honored enough to contribute anything of value to this world or to have your own needs met. Today we assure you that when you place yourselves fully in alignment with all that you are and all that the Divine comprise then you will create for yourself abundance as you show others how to do the same. It’s time to cast your fears aside, to say no more to the doubts that have dogged your footsteps and to say instead yes to the open doorway of possibility that exists for you now.

Yes, aligning your beingness with the energy of the Divine will require your growth but it will return to you a sense of well-being that is beyond words

This will require from you a willing heart, the ability to be responsible for your own actions as well as for the events that transpire in your life. It will also necessitate that you look upon absolutely everything with gratitude instead of irritation. Seek to discover the gift to be gained from every apparent failure and obstacle and let go of the feeling of being punished. For the spiritual seeker, there is no punishment merely the expansion of knowledge. As you move further along the path of enlightenment you will be expected to achieve an air of acceptance rather than reaction. Moving through life from your place of neutrality, you will be able to see the perfection within all beings instead of the rejection that the ego may want to assign to the interaction. Yes, aligning your beingness with the energy of the Divine will require your growth but it will return to you a sense of well-being that is beyond words. As you step away from the competition of not enough to go around and into the cooperation of more than enough for all, you will naturally ascend to the place of love, joy and peace where understanding replaces confusion and fullness permeates every part of your life.

As you let go of that which has held you prisoner in the past you’ll be able to step into all that’s been waiting for your arrival in the present

Spiritual transformation is neither right for or required by every being but for those who have chosen the spiritual journey, the 11/11 portal will provide powerful transformative assistance on your journey to fullness, to service, to leadership and into peace. As you let go of that which has held you prisoner in the past you’ll be able to step into all that’s been waiting for your arrival in the present. Come now and step into this portal of transformation.

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, is a spiritual life coach, channel, bestselling author and podcast host on Angel Heart Radio who specializes in helping you heal from pain, trauma, abuse, limiting beliefs, and negative thinking so you can become victorious in all areas of your life. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Angel Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom and unending joy.

Marcia will help you release your greatest fear so you can achieve your biggest dream. It’s time for you to be victorious, to heal your heart and transform your life.

Schedule your complimentary, thirty-minute Angel Heart Healing Breakthrough consultation at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/coaching or join the Healing Hearts Community at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/community and be supported by Marcia and other like-minded individuals who are committed to spiritual growth.