How To Stop Swimming Upstream

How To Stop Swimming Upstream

When you push against what isn’t wanted. When you talk about, obsess over, examine and try to create ways to avoid what you don’t want, you’ve successfully activated the law of attraction to bring you more of everything you don’t desire. In other words, you’re swimming upstream in the hopes of finding a pile of hidden gems, a treasure of what is wanted. Unfortunately, you’ll never find what you do want by trying to avoid what you don’t want.

When you’re traveling in sync with your highest good, you’re aligned with the Divine and heading automatically toward all that you desire

Instead, of practicing avoidance behavior, it’s time for you to turnaround and go with the flow. When you’re traveling in sync with your highest good, you’re aligned with the Divine and heading automatically toward all that you desire. There won’t be any pushing against or fighting off what’s coming at you. When you’re allowing yourself to flow with your guidance, you won’t have to search for treasure, you’ll walk right to it.  When you’re focused on what you don’t want to the exclusion of what you do want, the only attraction point you have active is, the attraction point for what’s not wanted, this is what is meant by swimming upstream.

It may sound exciting, courageous and interesting to be at odds with the forces of darkness

If you want life to become easier, to start making sense and to give you more of what you do want, then you have to align yourself with your highest good instead of pitting yourself against the darkness. It may sound exciting, courageous and interesting to be at odds with the forces of darkness. To be struggling against those who are malevolent, it may even make you think of yourself as a hero and trick you into believing that fighting against something will repair, restore and renew your damaged self-image. That it will take your sense of value and worth that’s become weakened by your life experiences and give it a new sense of purpose. The dark aspects that you’re giving your attention to so ardently, are powerless. They’re unable to give you anything except more of what they are: darkness, despair, desperation and defeat. When you begin a campaign to annihilate the darkness by spending every minute focused on how to defeat it, you’re giving all of your energy, attention and focus to swimming upstream and away from your desired result. Darkness has only the power you assign it and it can give you only the value you perceive it to have.

It’s impossible to talk, think or relate to what you don’t want in any way without receiving it

What you focus upon becomes strengthened. What you give your attention to becomes greater and that which you continue to feed with your words and emotion becomes all you can and will ever experience until you change your point of focus. It’s impossible to talk, think or relate to what you don’t want in any way without receiving it. When you allow it to be your point of focus, you guarantee it will be your point of attraction.

Make a commitment, a promise to yourself to take positive action every day

So what are you to do when all you can see is what’s wrong? How do you stop swimming upstream, stop traveling the wrong way down a one-way street and stop shooting yourself in the foot when everything in your life is going wrong? First, make a commitment, a promise to yourself to take positive action every day. Notice, we didn’t say the action had to be massive, expensive or time-consuming. We only suggest that you participate in the daily habit of positive action. To do this, set a morning routine. Before you get out of bed every morning, set an intention. Think of something you can be grateful for, something you can do for someone else and something you’d like to receive. Allow this action to be something easy, free of charge and quick so there won’t be any excuses preventing you from engaging in this morning practice. Whenever you overcomplicate you give yourself excuses and reasons why you’ll fail. Let’s look at a practical morning intention moment. Before rising you may say, “I’m grateful for this day. I’d like to give someone a compliment and receive a smile.” Now you simply get up, get dressed and go about making this happen for yourself and someone else by looking for the opportunity to give someone a compliment.

Instead of looking for the other shoe to fall, you’re looking for the next miracles moment, the next cause for joy

This may seem silly and inconsequential but here’s what’s happening for you energetically. First, you made a formal declaration of intent, an “I do want this,” statement. Next, you chose to give something lovely to someone else. This forces you to think, dwell upon and speak about lovely things which then activates the law of attraction to bring you more that’s lovely. Third, you move vibrationally into a state of expectation to receive something desired. Therefore, instead of looking for the other shoe to drop, you’re looking for the next miracles moment, the next cause for joy.

Choose to be fully present in this moment instead of allowing your attention to wander as you search for something more appealing to focus upon

After you’ve set your intention, it’s important that you spend time on yourself. Spend time in meditation so you’re filled with love and joy. Choose to dress with care and groom yourself well so the outside matches your inner state of harmony. Instead of rushing through everything trying to get to the next task on your to-do list, spend the time necessary to thoughtfully and conscientiously complete each task. Choose to be fully present in this moment instead of allowing your attention to wander as you search for something more appealing to focus upon. Invest your time and attention in this moment as you remember your daily intention is now to give and receive good.

You’re actively seeking and finding new reasons to be joyful

Finally, as you move through your day practice paying attention to everything that brings you joy. For most of you, this will require a new level of focus. Society dictates a gloom and doom awareness but we want you to cultivate a love and joy awareness. This means that you’re actively seeking and finding new reasons to be joyful. Your task throughout the day will be to constantly remind yourself of everything you see, hear and feel that brings you joy, that brings a song to your heart and lightness to your spirit. Your job is to be a beacon of joy.

You’ll never attract what’s unwanted by looking at what’s right

You’ll never be able to attract what you do want by looking at everything that’s wrong, that’s unwanted or that causes you to feel afraid. Conversely, you’ll never attract what’s unwanted by looking at what’s right. You’re safe, you’ll prosper and you’ll stay aligned with your highest good when you commit to filling your being with everything that feels good. Go ahead and laugh, sing and play – good comes from good and we desire that you experience good.

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, is a spiritual life coach who specializes in helping you heal from pain, trauma, abuse, limiting beliefs, and negative thinking so you can become victorious in all areas of your life. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Angel Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom and unending joy.

Marcia will help you release your greatest fear so you can achieve your biggest dream. It’s time for you to be victorious, to heal your heart and transform your life.

Schedule your complimentary, thirty-minute Angel Heart Healing Breakthrough consultation at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/coaching

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Why Loving Yourself Just Isn’t Enough

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Dear ones, most of you are aware of the importance of self-love but if your self-love doesn’t include every aspect of your being then you’ve only succeeded in scratching the surface of the magnificence that you could be experiencing. It is the Almighty’s desire for you that you should live in complete abundance. In this state, you lack for nothing for you’ve stepped into your bounty with every part of your being.

When you are loving yourselves fully and authentically you enter into a harmonious state of balance that pervades every part of your life.

This means that you’re not living in physical splendor while inside your dying and crying yourself to sleep nor are you living in a state of abject poverty while you find joy in every waking moment. No dears, when you are loving yourselves fully and authentically you enter into a harmonious state of balance that pervades every part of your life. You will still have desires but you will no longer have desperation. When you move beyond surface self-love, which is the condition of most beings in the physical state and into heart-centered self-love, the questions drop away, you no longer scurry around looking for validation or confirmation. There’s no more question of self-worth. There’s only an understanding of your majesty and value to yourself, to the world and to your Creator. When you allow your entire being to move from the place of supplicant who begs to be noticed to the place of honor in which you receive devoted attention as a matter of course, you’ll also move from the, “I hope so place” of beingness to the “I know so” place of belonging.

Connect through the heart with every aspect of your being

It’s time now for those of you who have come as leaders to connect fully and deeply from the heart with your Creator. The work you’ve agreed to do in this lifetime cannot be accomplished from a seat on the surface. You’ll all be able to mouth the words, “I love myself” and you’ll all be able to participate in acts that are self-loving but until you leave the surface with its glitter and glamour and go into the heart where you’ll find power and purpose you’ll only ever be able to imitate self-loving behavior, you won’t be able to truly accomplish it. If you want to integrate it through every layer of your being than you must connect through the heart with every aspect of your being.

Do not berate, belittle or condemn yourself for agreeing to participate in victim situations

We want you to look at the pain, the hurt and the trauma and then go beyond it to the place of power by seeing all of the gifts those experiences have brought forth. There will be times when you’ve perceived yourself to be the victim because someone or something caused you to experience pain. You must remember that this is impossible. No one and nothing can harm you unless you’ve given them permission to do so. Your free will protects you from unwanted experiences. Therefore, rather than wallow in self-pity over the tough circumstances, the harsh lesson or the unrelenting pain you must take a look at your part in the bargain. What agreements do you have in place that enabled you to spend time in the darkness? Rather than turn away, run away or hide your eyes, you must learn to look with wisdom on all that you’ve created. Once you understand your part in the experience, change your agreement from something unwanted to something desired as you change your learning experiences from pain to pleasure. Do not berate, belittle or condemn yourself for agreeing to participate in victim situations. Blame is not in order here but forgiveness is. Step out of the darkness and into the light by offering yourself unconditional forgiveness. Whatever you agreed to experience was agreed to because you believed it was necessary, deserved or that it would further your growth in some way. Before a growth experience occurs, you may have believed that harshness, condemnation or criticism were necessary in order for you to advance quickly but that’s a faulty mindset that will be corrected when you enter the heart and learn to truly love yourself by offering yourself forgiveness for all thoughts, words and deeds as you offer that same forgiveness to all others.

Free will states that agreement is necessary before interaction is possible

In addition, you will do well to recall that you were not always the victim. More often than you may want to believe you’ve been the perpetrator. So let go of all scorekeeping. Let those who did you wrong off the hook. Stop trying to punish everyone including yourself by holding to a judgmental place of blame and shame. None of you can take advantage of an unwilling person. Free will states that agreement is necessary before interaction is possible.

Embrace every part of yourself, forgive every unsavory aspect of your being

The only solution that has no negative energetic tail following along behind it, is love. Love yourself especially those dark aspects of yourself that you agreed to out of ignorance. They served the highest purpose possible and that was to move you forward into a journey of self-love. Embrace every part of yourself, forgive every unsavory aspect of your being. Draw back the curtains on your life and allow the unconditionally loving light of God to come pouring forth into every aspect of your self.

Love yourself completely from your heart-center and set yourself free

Allow the heart, which has experienced the pain and then stored the memory of that pain as a way to protect you, to become free by releasing all vestiges of the experience. Love yourself so deeply and forgive yourself so completely that nothing is standing between you and your Creator. Love yourself wide open so that you become the majestic, authentic self of power that you came here to be. Nothing is more powerful than a heart-centered being who has stepped fully into alignment with God, by offering themselves forgiveness as they lovingly accept and appreciate every aspect of themselves. Love yourself completely from your heart-center and set yourself free.

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, is a spiritual life coach who specializes in helping you heal from pain, trauma, abuse, limiting beliefs, and negative thinking so you can become victorious in all areas of your life. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Angel Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom and unending joy.

Marcia will help you release your greatest fear so you can achieve your biggest dream. It’s time for you to be victorious, to heal your heart and transform your life.

Schedule your complimentary, thirty-minute Angel Heart Healing Breakthrough consultation at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/coaching

How To Free Yourself From Self-Abuse

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Dear ones each of you know that doing conscious harm to your bodies will result in deterioration and a shortened life span but so many of you are unaware that self-harm extends beyond the physical. Punishing yourself through overindulgence or strict denial has no benefit but allowing yourself to remain mired in the waters of defeat, victimization and self-pity are even more dangerous acts of self-abuse than the addictions that address the physical body.

When you entertain thoughts that are hyper-critical, judgmental or negative and accept them passively as truth, this is when you have done yourselves the most harm possible

It’s the so-called invisible ways in which you engage in self-destruction that are causing you the greatest harm. The thoughts that proclaim boldly, “You have no value, You and your contribution are worthless, You are indeed shameful and most likely to bear the burden of guilt for those unforgivable actions in which you took part.” When you allow thoughts such as these to run through your mind unchecked or when you entertain thoughts that are hyper-critical, judgmental or negative and accept them passively as your truth, this is when you’ve done yourselves the most harm possible. If you’re not your biggest fan, if you’re not taking time out for yourself or you’re not spending some time out of every day giving back to yourself, you’re in trouble and heading toward disaster.

Instead of allowing yourself to remain in a long term relationship with any of your beliefs, you must do a periodic review

Negative thinking, believing the worst, acting as if the sky will be falling at any minute are ways in which you’re contributing to your own destruction. Instead of allowing yourself to remain in a long term relationship with any of your beliefs, you must do a periodic review. Ask yourself, “Why do I believe this to be true? How does it make me feel? Do I find myself becoming happier and more joyful when I think this way or do I become heavier and more burdened? Which of the beliefs that I hold, open the door for growth and freedom and which of my beliefs keep me stifled and small?

You do more damage with your mind thane you ever could with any physical act of self-abuse

Yes, drugs, alcohol, poor eating habits and a sedentary lifestyle are hazardous to your health. They are indeed all ways in which you are inflicting self-harm but they are mild in comparison to the damage you’re doing by allowing a negative, limiting mindset to be operating in your energetic field. Let’s be honest and admit what’s possible. You can overeat, undereat, take pills and drink, up to a point. However, at some point, the body will shut down your activities and force you to take a break but at no time does the mind choose to shut down and turn off. Therefore, your poisonous thoughts, your silent accusations and your feelings of not being good enough have the potential to eat away at your spirit 24 hours a day. You do more damage with your mind than you ever could with any physical act of self-abuse.

Nothing is holding you prisoner to a set of beliefs or a way of thinking except yourself 

Yet, just as the mind can inflict the greater punishment it can also provide the greatest reward. The mind that was allowed to devolve into a place of self-abuse doesn’t have to stay in that place. Nothing is holding you prisoner to a set of beliefs or a way of thinking except yourself so it’s time for you to make a conscious choice. If you’ve chosen to be abusive with your thoughts then it’s time for you to choose to see who you really are instead. No excuses can be tolerated. No amount of, “I didn’t mean it,” will be found acceptable. Instead of excuses, you must step forward and recognize all of the damage and abuse you have inflicted upon yourself by choosing not to fill your mind with all the abundance, joy, peace and love that surrounds you on a daily basis. When you choose to see the dark side, you choose to sentence yourself to a pris on of shame and blame. You’ve locked yourself into a place from which you believe there can be no escape, however, there’s always a way out. Choose this day to see the blessing instead of the curse. Choose this day to take responsibility for each thought that you allow to take up residence in your mind.

The minute you stand up and say, “I’ve had enough! I’m ready to take charge of my life,” the transformation will begin

As long as you maintain the attitude that you have no control over your mind, what happens to you or how you react to it, you will continue to feel as though you’re a victim. You’ll continue to engage in self-abusive behavior and you’ll continue to feel shame and blame. Your world will continue to grow smaller and darker and you’ll move further and further from joy. However, the minute you stand up and say, “I’ve had enough! I’m ready to take charge of my life,” the transformation will begin.

Each time you arrive at a dark place ask yourself, why?

Little by little you must do the work to peel away the layers of pain and deceit that have formed during the time when your mind controlled you. Little by little you must examine where your mind goes when it’s allowed to roam. Each time you arrive at a dark place ask yourself, why? “What was I thinking about, participating in or believing about myself that allowed me to engage in these self-abusive thoughts? When you discover the point of origin, the way into the darkness, do not allow it to stay unchallenged. Instead, go into the corresponding heart point and see what feelings you’ve attached to those thoughts. Why has it become acceptable to think of yourself in those disparaging terms and what are you willing to do to change your perception of yourself?

Your Creator sees you as perfect

We cannot but advise, that you choose to be willing to do whatever it takes to change your self-perception from one of abuse to one of acceptance. It’s imperative that you learn to love and accept every part of yourself. Your Creator sees you as perfect, how can you see yourself as any less? Take control, turn your thoughts away from darkness and free yourself so you may walk confidently into the light.

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, is a spiritual life coach who specializes in helping you heal from pain, trauma, abuse, limiting beliefs, and negative thinking so you can become victorious in all areas of your life. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Angel Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom and unending joy.

Marcia will help you release your greatest fear so you can achieve your biggest dream. It’s time for you to be victorious, to heal your heart and transform your life.

Schedule your complimentary, thirty-minute Angel Heart Healing Breakthrough consultation at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/coaching

Gratitude: The Power Behind the Practice

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Dear ones so many of you have either adopted the practice of gratitude or you’ve simply carried it forward from your training as a youth and this is admirable however we observe that few of you understand the potential power that you unleash when you participate in this practice with full comprehension. Doing something because spiritual thought leaders recommend it or your parents demanded it doesn’t give you full access to the power that heart gratitude will unleash in your life. When your gratitude is heart-centered and sincere you free up all other high vibrational emotions. As gratitude calls forth opportunity and abundance it’s easy to feel joyful, to become more loving and to come from a place of overflowing well-being.

Since everything you could ever desire both material and spiritual is comprised of the Divine, when you deny them access you deny yourself entrance into the kingdom of heaven

That state of overflowing well-being is our goal for you but most of you fear the hand of the Divine instead of clearing out the debris that’s blocking its entrance. As you move through the challenges and opportunities of each lifetime baggage may be acquired. Perhaps you feel entitled to or justified in taking a greater share or perhaps you’ve been beaten into believing that you aren’t deserving of any share at all. No matter your viewpoint you’re practicing exclusion instead of balance and when you’re looking at why not, who should not or what can’t be, you’re now in a place of judgment, a place of attachment and a position in which the Divine is being denied access. Since everything you could ever desire both material and spiritual is comprised of the Divine, when you deny them access you deny yourself entrance into the kingdom of heaven. The one place you most want to be.

The kingdom of heaven is not a place, it’s a state of being

Let us be clear, the kingdom of heaven is not a place, it’s a state of being each of you enters when you leave behind the low vibration of fear, the false illusion of competition, one-upmanship and any of the other ways you’ve found to separate yourselves from each other and from paradise. Isn’t it time for you to return to the state of being that is for the highest good of all, the state that guarantees joy and the beingness in which you can fully prosper as others do the same?

When you practice heartfelt gratitude you engage your entire being in a symphony of unconditional love 

This dear ones is the place you arrive when you abandon all activities, mindsets and beliefs that you’ve entered into out of fear. This is the power of the practice of gratitude. Stop saying thank you for that which you neither desired or appreciated. Stop engaging in behavior by rote and begin looking at and purposely choosing that behavior which will bring you the greatest forward motion. Sincere, heartfelt gratitude is the only energy capable of moving the needle on your wellness scale from empty to full. When you practice heartfelt gratitude you engage your entire being in a symphony of unconditional love as you seek to find others with whom you can share this blessing. When you are sincerely grateful, the energy is expansive and inclusive. The energy wells up from you and seeks out others who can be included so that all feel touched by the hand of God.

You are where you are because you’ve chosen to be there either with your thoughts, your words or your deeds

So, how is it possible to engage with the gratitude of the heart? First, it’s necessary to stop entertaining fear, abandon desperation and cease looking for others to blame for your misfortune. You are where you are because you’ve chosen to be there either with your thoughts, your words or your deeds. Come away from your pit of despair, now stop and look around you, what do you see? Homes, cars, people in clothing moving amidst a lush backdrop of vegetation. Everywhere you look, when you choose to look, you’ll see abundance. Be grateful. Show appreciation for the bounty that’s before you. Put aside your petty wants and desires and become grateful for the abundance that has been placed before you. Recognize that none of you need go without, some of you may choose to be without but none of you are forced to go without. If necessary, each one of you could move to an area of land that was unoccupied and from there you could hunt for food or grow your own. Make your own clothing and shelter or trade with others for the service but none of you have been left with nothing. Some of you have chosen to see only what’s missing. Saying words like, “Thanks for nothing.” You see no bounty so therefore no bounty exists for you. We suggest you change your point of view.

You won’t be able to repress the joy you feel for all of the bounty

If you want to put the power of gratitude to work in your life see only that. Find the myriad of ways in which you’re being provided and cared for and focus on each one of them individually and collectively until you’re able to express sincere gratitude. When you become aware of all that you’ve been given, when you realize all that you are, when you let go of all limiting beliefs and the negative thoughts that are holding you hostage, waves of gratitude will sing through your veins. You won’t be able to repress the joy you feel for all of the bounty that you’ve received. Instead of looking at what isn’t and feeling angry and deprived, you’ll be looking at was is and expressing joy and sharing love.

It was always that you had everything but you were refusing to see the treasure that was before you.

It was never that you had nothing, it was always that you had everything but you were refusing to see the treasure that was before you. As you learn to understand your own magnificence you’ll come to realize how loved you are. You’ll cease to fear Divine intervention and you’ll begin to welcome it knowing that when you look at what is in your life with joy and appreciation, what is in your life will continue to expand.

Pour your energy into all that you already have that makes your heart sing

Waste no time on what is unwanted, pour your energy into all that you already have that makes your heart sing. Gratitude expressed from the heart ensures that you will always remain in a place of abundant joy.

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, is a spiritual life coach who specializes in helping you heal from pain, trauma, abuse, limiting beliefs, and negative thinking so you can become victorious in all areas of your life. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Angel Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom and unending joy.

Marcia will help you release your greatest fear so you can achieve your biggest dream. It’s time for you to be victorious, to heal your heart and transform your life.

Schedule your complimentary, thirty-minute Angel Heart Healing Breakthrough consultation at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/coaching

How You Can Find Joy When You’re Secretly Unhappy

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Dearest hearts when you live your lives from a place of showiness instead of a place of genuineness, every part of your being suffers. Yet, how can you, who are subject to a material world live as spiritual beings without calling undo and unwanted attention to yourselves?

Many of you are suppressing your innate beings

This dear ones is what we’ll answer today. The problem begins with the misconception of normal or acceptable behavior. You believe that in order to escape notice, to live a hassle-free life there must be a certain level of conformity within your lifestyle choices. To make this happen many of you are suppressing your innate beings, the authentic self that is connected through love to every other being of energy anywhere in the energetic or physical realms. When you try to hide or discount that aspect of yourself the only result can be unhappiness, a sense of regret or even shame. You cannot cut off or cut out the beating heart of your beingness without expecting the you that is you to experience cardiac arrest and feel cut off from all that is meaningful. Life for each of you is meant to have purpose and vibrancy for life without meaning provides no incentive to explore, to grow or to ascend into the highest version of the self. It is to this pain, this sadness, this loneliness that we speak today so that you will feel free to express yourselves at every level without fear of recrimination or censure.

God is love, it exists as love incarnate and has created you in their image and likeness so you too are love

Although we cannot guarantee what kind of reception you’ll receive from your fellow man, we can and will stress that God desires only your fullness. God is love, it exists as love incarnate and has created you in their image and likeness so you too are love. When you arrive on the physical plane and begin to embark on your life’s journey you may fall victim to all sorts of twists and turns. Sub-plots within the plot you wrote into this life’s’ adventure but you will never be reviled or disowned by God. God sees your heart your true self and they know that even though you can get lost along the way you’ll always find your way home. This ability to always return home is why each life journey is given the opportunity to face challenges, difficulties and even events that may end the physical experience. No part of you that is you can be hurt or harmed so the physical journey is undertaken for the purpose of exploration. This is why so many of you feel out of place or as though you just can’t find where you fit in. This confusion about where or if you belong may cause you to be secretly unhappy, fearful or resentful but that’s only happening because you’re suppressing your authentic self. You’re asking the circle that is you to operate in the straight-sided restrictiveness of society that isn’t you and then you wonder why you don’t fit, don’t feel fulfilled or don’t feel inspired to do anything for anyone especially yourself.

We still recommend that you become more you and less society

We advise that you allow the you that you are, the heart-centric being that feels deeply, know intimately and sees clearly to come out into the open. It’s time for you to feel the air on your skin, see the light with your eyes and experience the freedom that comes when you stop hiding and begin living. We understand that this will be a major change for many of you but yet we still recommend that you become more you and less society. So how do you go about stripping off the layers of conditioning so you can step back into alignment with the Divine and contribute to society from your place of overflowing well-being rather than from the place of empty conformity? First, you must pull up all of the beliefs you practice by rote. This is anything you’ve been exposed to as a child, those ideas and repetitions that you’ve memorized or that were repeated often in the home where you grew up. This will be an overwhelming amount of work if you try to do it all quickly or without guidance and because of the sheer scope of the project you’re much more likely to give up instead of seeing it through and finding lasting happiness.

We want you to run toward the assistance of the angels

However, we have a solution. Do not do this work on your own. Don’t cut yourself off from heaven’s help believing that your salvation lies at the bottom of a glass or within a prescription bottle. Instead, of running away, we want you to run toward the assistance of the angels. Therefore, before you begin searching for those beliefs and that negative thinking that’s standing in the way of your happiness go within. Ask the energetic realm to guide you in your quest. Don’t worry about who to ask or what to say, simply close your eyes, open your heart and ask that that which is holding you in a state of unhappiness be brought forward for your review. Know that nothing will be forced upon you. If you see that the belief needing to be eliminated is foundational, you may not be ready to make that change. Love yourself anyway. Love yourself so much that you can feel good about you if you’re able to move forward or if you need to hold yourself right where you are. Making great strides sounds like a lofty aspiration but it’s not required for your success.

Your unhappiness is being perpetuated by the fact that you don’t love, accept and appreciate yourself just as you are

Your state of unhappiness is not being generated by society, your peers or even your inability to feel as though you belong. Your unhappiness is being perpetuated by the fact that you don’t love, accept and appreciate yourself just as you are. Instead of seeing yourself as a shiny diamond, you’re viewing the lump of coal and believing it has no value, so you go about trying to hide the lump of coal, to dress it up and to make it something it can never be hoping to give it will the opportunity to be someone. We want you to realize you are already everything. There is no one and nothing better than you are about being you and the minute you stop pushing your authentic self alway or stop trying to cover it up with limiting beliefs imposed by others is the minute you’ll begin finding purpose, happiness and your reason to be.

Clear the mind of thoughts, clear the heart of the memories and clear the way for you to shine forth as a guide for others

Do the work, dig into those statements of condition that you’ve allowed to define you, determine if they represent your highest good and if they express your authentic being. If they don’t give yourself permission to release those limiting beliefs and negative programming. Clear the mind of thoughts, clear the heart of the memories and clear the way for you to shine forth as a guide for others. Be the light that lights the path for many by being willing to dive deep into conditioned responses to determine which of them represents you.

When who you are is allowed to shine forth, joy will be found

Be the diamond you always were and stop trying to put party outfits on a lump of coal. When who you are is allowed to shine forth, joy will be found. It’s never a lack of ability to find happiness but it’s always the inability to find the source. Release the limitations so you can shine forth brilliantly in your happiest state of joy.

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, is a spiritual life coach who specializes in helping you heal from pain, trauma, abuse, limiting beliefs, and negative thinking so you can become victorious in all areas of your life. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Angel Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom and unending joy.

Marcia will help you release your greatest fear so you can achieve your biggest dream. It’s time for you to be victorious, to heal your heart and transform your life.

Schedule your complimentary, thirty-minute Angel Heart Healing Breakthrough consultation at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/coaching

 

How To Make an Empowered Decision

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Dear ones, decision making is not nearly as difficult or as complicated as you try to make it. We have a simple solution for you and we advise that you apply this fix to every dilemma.

Nothing that would be of benefit to you is ever being withheld

Whenever you find yourself becoming filled with anxiety or overcome by nervous tension we want you to relax. No problem can be solved if you come at it from a place of fear but every problem will be remedied when you approach with a relaxed and confident attitude. It matters not that you are unsure of the answer, it’s only imperative that you trust that an answer will be forthcoming as long as you stay aligned with Divine mind. Nothing that would be of benefit to you is ever being withheld however, much of the information that’s being provided goes by you unnoticed. This is because every minute you spend tense, frightened or worried is a moment you’ll spend out of alignment with Source. When you’re on the wrong frequency, only little bits of information are received and even these could be distorted.

Decision-making process should be a simple observation in what feels best to your heart

It’s the faulty reception, the no reception and the lack of alignment that’s causing you to believe that decisions should be difficult to make, fraught with anxiety or easy to screw up. In truth, the decision-making process should be a simple observation in what feels best to your heart. There should not be a sense of panic, the anticipation of pain or the feeling that failure is likely. The fact that those thoughts occupy your mind indicates that you’re making your decisions from the lowest vibration of fear instead of from the high vibrational, empowered place of certainty. It’s you out of alignment vs you in alignment and guided by God.

Five-step decision-making process

Because we want you to succeed and achieve maximum value in every area of your life, we’re going to share with you a five-step decision-making process that will enable you to make empowered decisions, to act with certainty and without hesitation and to move forward with surety.

Use the breath to facilitate relaxation

The first step you must take is to relax completely. Don’t just take a deep breath and tell yourself you’re now relaxed. No, do the work! Close your eyes, find areas of tension and use the breath to facilitate their relaxation. If this exercise is not sufficient than engage in a period of physical activity until you can sit calmly and relax your body.

Create two picture screens in your mind

Second, you must clear your mind. Again, pretending that you’re mind is clear will not work. If you cannot obtain a state of calm, clear when you close your eyes and relax your body then get out pen and paper and write down every stray thought that enters your mind. The annoyance of this rigorous practice will quickly encourage you to create a more disciplined mind. Once you have created a neutral space, a space of non-judgment create two picture screens in your mind.

Begin the decision-making process by feeling your way forward

Third, allow the screens which are both neutral to have a picture of the two possible outcomes that could result from your decision. (If there are more than two outcomes compare two at a time until you reach a place of certainty). Staying in your relaxed place of non-attachment look at the screens in front of you. Now begin the decision-making process by feeling your way forward. When you look at both screens from a neutral place does one feel more possible or like a better match for you? Looking at the best match walk closer and see how the decision or ending place feels as you draw near. Now move back to your neutral starting point and look at the other screen and feel your way toward that possible outcome. This part of the exercise indicates you approaching your future and assessing your comfort level with each outcome.

Why you prefer one outcome over another one

In step four, you must begin asking detective questions to yourself about why you prefer one outcome over another one. Don’t be satisfied with this one feels better than the other one, instead learn to ask yourself, why? “Why does this outcome make me feel better? What do I gain? What will I learn? How will I grow? How does this further my life purpose?” Once you get used to stepping outside of the fear-based ego you’ll step into alignment with the Divine mind that has infinite sight and intelligence and will help you guide your life in the direction of your highest good and most growth. In addition, messengers, such as the angels and ascended masters will also guide you and support you toward the end product that most facilitates your life purpose. God is your overarching guide and the angels are your support team that will help make life flow more smoothly. It’s imperative that you make use of all the help that’s available if you want to make empowered decisions.

Stop and look back at the events that have transpired

Once you have felt your way toward the best decision and then analyzed why that decision is best for you, finalize your choice by walking to the screen of your choice, pausing to give yourself the sense of arriving. Feel the impact of the decision, the fullness of the consequence of your choice and now move beyond your decision. Once you’ve moved a certain distance ahead, stop and look back at the events that have transpired between your decision that is now in the past and your future present (the place you’re now figuratively standing). Once again see how you feel. You’re now living with the decision you’ve made. How do you feel? Look around at the landscape of your life. Does it glow with health and vitality or is it anemic and in need of an intervention? If at any time along the decision-making process you become confused, uncomfortable or stuck reach out to the angelic realm and ask them to provide guidance and assistance for your life.

Make your choice from an empowered position

Stay away from fear, discipline your body and your mind to be in a place of harmonious balance with the Divine. Feel your way to the best choice and then dig down to find why you’ve made that choice. Finally, go ahead in time and look back upon all that’s happened. Now you’ve made your choice from an empowered position.

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, is a spiritual life coach who specializes in helping you heal from pain, trauma, abuse, limiting beliefs, and negative thinking so you can become victorious in all areas of your life. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Angel Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom and unending joy.

Marcia will help you release your greatest fear so you can achieve your biggest dream. It’s time for you to be victorious, to heal your heart and transform your life.

Schedule your complimentary, thirty-minute Angel Heart Healing Breakthrough consultation at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/coaching

 

Love and Angels

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Prayer of Protection to Archangel Michael

Marcia Martin MEd the Heart Healer on YouTube 

What could be better than love and angels? How about a day when they’ve joined to celebrate Global Love Day to bring you an angel extravaganza.

My Angel Prayer now on Alexa

Sheri Leigh Myers, an earth angel who hosts the How To Connect With Angels Podcast, has created an Alexa skill that will help you interact with the angels on a daily basis. My Angel Prayer is featured on Amazon’s Alexa and can be accessed free from your computer, mobile device or Echo virtual assistant. Each angel prayer focuses on an important aspect of your daily life: protection, love, health, abundance and guidance. The prayers have been written and recorded by angel lovers from around the globe who desire to help you connect with the angels in new and more meaningful ways.

FB Live on Global Love Day

On May 1st, Global Love Day, Sheri is hosting a day of angels. Broadcasting live, beginning at 9:00 am CST, from her Facebook page: How to Connect with Angels Podcast, Sheri will be interviewing all of the angel prayer practitioners. You’ll learn why they love angels, what inspired them to begin connecting with angels and how they interact with angels in their own lives. You’ll also learn what prayer means to them and how their spiritual journey has evolved since they first began searching for deeper meaning.

Go to the angels directly

If you love angels and you’re looking for a deeper, more personal way to connect, My Angel Prayer, on Amazon Alexa is your answer. Instead of struggling alone in the dark, hoping to stumble upon a solution, go to the angels directly and learn to ask for their help.

I’ll be with Sheri live on FB at noon PST

I’ll be with Sheri live on Tuesday, May 1st at noon PST, on her FB page: How to Connect with Angels Podcast, to share my angel journey. That’s Tuesday, May 1st at 12:00 pm PST, 3:00 pm EST, 8:00 pm BST, Wednesday 5:00 am AEST on How to Connect with Angels Podcast 

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, is a spiritual life coach who specializes in helping you heal from pain, trauma, abuse, limiting beliefs, and negative thinking so you can become victorious in all areas of your life. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Angel Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom and unending joy.

Marcia will help you release your greatest fear so you can achieve your biggest dream. It’s time for you to be victorious, to heal your heart and transform your life.

Schedule your complimentary, thirty-minute Angel Heart Healing Breakthrough consultation at https://www.mmhearthealer.com/coaching