Why Should I Ask The Angels For Assistance?

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Dear ones in your Do-It-Yourself culture you are to be commended for your ingenuity but we offer that commendation with caution. Although we are enormously proud of your desire to take charge, because taking charge equals taking ownership of and responsibility for your creation, we don’t want you to assume that you can neither ask for help or receive that help as needed. We want you to look at DIY as fabulous, innovative and powerful. However, we want you to see the DIY life plus angelic help as uber fabulous, next level innovative and supremely powerful. No one is saying your incapable. We’re just suggesting that life will become magnificent when you learn to use all the tools in your toolbox and all of the colors in your box of crayons. Life as you is monochromatic, a study in grays. Life with the angels is lived in technicolor with vibrancy and joy.

So let’s look at why. Why should you ask the angels? Why isn’t this creating a dependency and why are you stronger with their assistance than when you attempt to solve the problem on your own? First, you must understand the basic premise, “Where two or more are gathered in His name.” There’s strength in numbers or in energetic signatures and the whole is greater than the parts. As one individual you can produce a degree of energy. This is true for every individual no matter what vibrational level their occupying. A degree of energy always exists that is you. When you add another energetic signature the energy immediately doubles. But when both of you are committed to the same end result something magical happens. When you combine your energy and add a shared desire, the desire becomes a third energetic presence that acts as an attractor beam. A stream of energy so powerful that it immediately begins drawing to itself all things that are like itself. The energy of desire supersedes the energy of each individual because desire is attached to emotion, which is attached to the heart and the Christed energy of creation. Therefore, when you crafted your desire you started the manifestation process but when you bring in other like-minded individuals you’ve accelerated your manifestation process by an infinite amount. In this particular example, you would only be limited by what you believed was possible. However, limiting beliefs can put the brakes on your ability to experience the abundance you seek. This is why we suggest you partner with the angels. When you join energetically with the angels you’re aligning with the Divine mind which means the absolute trust and belief in unlimited possibility. Suddenly your wishful, hope-so thinking has expanded into absolutely, without a doubt and unlimited possibilities. You can attain this with another highly advanced being in the physical realm but even if you should find this rare individual, it’s not advisable to leave the angels out of the equation. Most beings on the physical plane believe in the illusion of limitations whether consciously or unconsciously so they will unwittingly stifle your manifestation with their need to be practical or realistic. The angels, on the other hand, see the bigger picture and have specific strengths so they’re able to compensate for your weaknesses while never falling victim to the belief that if just can’t happen.

Now, let’s address the second question, “Aren’t you creating a dependency when you rely on angelic assistance?” The long and short answer is, “No!” It’s not possible to create a dependency, which is an unhealthy relationship, with a being that is in its entirety, unconditional love. Dependency denotes strong and weak, capable and incapable but angelic assistance is not offered because you are weak or incapable. It’s offered because you are loved. There’s no outstanding agenda, no payback or reward system and no need to curry favor. Their love cannot be bought or sold. It simply is and it will remain that way for all eternity because the angels, as beings of God, are beings of unconditional love. You will be given assistance whether your bad or good, happy or sad but you’ll make their assistance more effective if you’re joyfully working toward a loving resolution.

You must understand the workings of the universe in order to make the most effective use of the angels. They operate at the highest end of the vibrational scale in the atmosphere of purest love. Although they can assist you while you’re in darkness, they do not descend vibrationally to do so. They stay in their pure, high vibration and pull you into their love and out of your darkness. So if you desire the greatest amount of angelic intervention possible in your life move higher on the vibrational scale. Even if the situation appears to be dark and dismal, you don’t have to stay lost in the dark. Every circumstance you encounter contains within it the seeds of joy, spaces of gratitude and reasons why you can hope. Grab onto each one of these moments and use them to pull yourself higher. The abler you are to elevate your vibration, the easier it will be for you to receive angelic assistance. When you’re consciously seeking what’s right, instead of grumbling about what’s wrong, you’ll be able to receive guidance. This is not because the angels will only help you if you’re at a certain level but because the higher your frequency the easier the interaction becomes. You’ll be much more capable of following their gentle promptings when you’re looking for what’s right instead of wallowing in grief as you grumble about all that’s wrong. The angels are always actively assisting you but when you’ve raised your vibration you place yourself in the position to take advantage of their assistance. You’ve become their partner instead of the child that doesn’t know any better.

This brings us to the final question, “Why are you stronger with angelic assistance or why am I not good enough all by myself?” To this, we must say, “You are more than enough!” The trouble is, you don’t always believe it and at times you actively block this truth. When you partner with angels you take what you already are, which is more than enough and you become a superhero who is more than enough to the umpteenth power. This assistance is available to all of you all of the time. The question should not be, “Why should I ask the angels for help?” Rather it should be, “Why in the world wouldn’t I ask compassionate, loving, all-knowing beings to assist me on every occasion?” You’re not being made smaller by accepting help, you’re expanding exponentially so you’ll be able to help yourself, your loved ones and all others as you are guided by God to do so.

If you are tired of feeling weak and powerless and you’re ready to become your authentic self who is powerful beyond measure then you will drop the pretense, stop the false humility and step into your power. A fully realized being understands that going solo is limiting and self-defeating but partnering with the angels and being open to their assistance allows you to step into the powerful, authentic self you came here to be. If you’re ready to have a positive impact on the world, ask for assistance and follow the guidance of the angels.

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, specializes in helping those who have been the victim of sexual trauma to heal from that pain and abuse so they can become victorious in all areas of their lives. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Angel Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom.

Her program targets the energetic heart center where every emotional memory and its triggers are stored. Once these memories are cleared and healed you’ll be able to live life on your terms, as your authentic self, empowered to live your life on purpose as the person you came here to be. Move from victim to victorious by healing your heart and transforming your life!

Message her for a complimentary, thirty-minute consultation at  http://www.marciamartinthehearthealer.com/contact.html.

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How To Pray a Powerful, Heartfelt Prayer

How to pray a powerful, heartfelt prayer

Dearest hearts you have become a divided society and thereby you’ve weakened the fabric of your manifestations. If you are to prosper, you must prosper as one body and not as individual units that can exist without the other or without caring for one another. Because each of you is on a journey that’s unique to the individual you cannot walk another’s path for them. Their free will prohibits you from preventing them from exploring the depths of their choices. However, this doesn’t free you from the obligation of loving and being of assistance to one another. This then is where prayer is one of your most valuable assets. Done with right intention, right knowledge and right belief, prayer is stronger than any other force and no weapon formed against you can prosper in the presence of prayer.

Therefore, let us examine how to pray to get results instead of just repeating words that were written by the hand of another. Although we don’t demand that you abandon conventional prayer we must ask that you stop the droning repetition. When you mumble on and on with words that you’ve memorized but have never connected with, you may be successful in clearing your mind of all thought but you will not feel the lightheartedness that comes from establishing a true connection. Unless you connect fully with the words you utter they will be meaningless to you. You would be just as well served by offering a single syllable or another form of mind entertainment that allows you to go beyond the words to the God center that lies within all. The words of well-loved prayers, if understood, if connected to you and if felt by the heart will take you on a deeper journey within. They will be capable of helping you establish a heart connection and enabling you to feel the weightlessness of joy as you connect fully. But, if you repeat words without connecting and comprehending them, the prayer becomes an imposed habit or ritual that has no personal meaning. It’s nothing more than a bunch of words presented by an outside source that is trying to help you establish a path to God. Even if their intentions are good the effect will be negligible unless you understand and can connect through the utterance of that prayer.

As one energetic body, separated into individual physical bodies you view yourselves as powerless in many ways. As a singular energetic body, you are powerful beyond measure. It’s not your power that’s lacking it’s your understanding. We ask that you pray without ceasing for yourselves, for each other, for the world and for the empowerment of all beings. Your success, your neighbor’s success, the world’s success depends on your prayerful offering. Therefore, you must understand how to pray.

First, let go of how you want it to be. When you pray, ask for your desired result but then willingly release that result and open your heart to receiving that which is for your highest good. This accomplishes two things. First, it gives your mind a focal point. I now have this desired outcome to focus upon and secondly, I have entrusted the outcome to God. I recognize I cannot see the whole picture, I understand I might not know what’s best and I am now choosing to let go of my small, clouded vision and allow God to present the perfect outcome. Therefore, the first element of a powerful prayer is trust.

You must trust that God has heard you, has answered you and that Universal Intelligence sees more, knows more and hears more than you do. This means that their judgment, the wisdom by which they answer is superior to yours. In addition, their wisdom is steeped in their essence which is unconditional love. An answered prayer will not play favorites, manipulate circumstances to hurt another or cause harm in any way. If these things happen they are not a result of your prayer. You may believe this to be true, you may even tell people that you’ve prayed for their destruction but you would not be telling the truth. You would merely be playing out a fantasy of your own making. Answered prayer doesn’t hurt, harm or manipulate. There may be times when the answer or the circumstances appear to support your false belief but again that would be because you or another party created a false reality in which you receive unloving treatment, feel isolated or abandoned. Your free will allows you to experience alternative realities that support your limiting beliefs. This is not because you’re either unloved or being punished but because you are so loved that you’ve been given the free will to explore any belief system that appeals to you. No matter how far you run from Source, the authentic self, the soul, the you that is you cannot be harmed. You cannot cease to exist or become separated from God. You can, however, create the illusion that you are separate. Remember, this is only an illusion therefore whenever you desire you may return to the loving arms of God where you can feel the unconditional love that never ceased to be.

Trust is the first factor in an effective prayer and intent is the second. You must enter into the prayerful state with the intention that you are doing something of great value. You must believe that your prayer makes a difference and that it has purpose and power. If you just mutter a string of words so you can say you’ve prayed, you have no trust and you never intended that your prayer would be impactful. Prayer cannot become powerful unless you allow it to be so. Unleash the power of your prayers by being focused on what you’re saying, connect through the heart and send your prayer not out into empty air but within you into the light of love, the eternal flame that burns within your heart, the Universal Source that is the Supreme Creator who hears and answers every request with unconditional love. This day, pray with intention. Mean what you say and pray from the heart. Recognize your connection to God and all things and pray for the well-being, the upliftment and the empowerment of all. When one of you rises from a place of love, all others who are willing rise with you. No one can be left behind unless they have chosen to remain in the darkness of their own making.

You have now learned to trust God and to pray with intention. Now you must pray always and only through the heart with expectation. If you’re going to be receptive to the answer which was formed before you began praying you must pray from a place of expectation. You must pray knowing God is capable of answering and will always answer with unconditional love. Therefore, pray and ask but don’t beg. Ask with certainty and then relax into knowingness and gratitude. When you’re certain something is going to happen you don’t keep asking and asking for it to appear, you simply sit back and relax into a place of thanksgiving. Grateful for the answer that will be exactly what’s best for your highest good even if it’s not what you asked for. Trusting in the love God holds for you, you may ask for confirmation that you’ve been heard but once is sufficient to ask. Gratitude should then replace the desire. Gratitude for being heard. Gratitude for being answered. Gratitude for having that which is for your highest good brought into your life as you surrender to the perfection that will be brought forth on your behalf.

There’s no need to beg or cajole. God is not withholding anything from you. Simply enter your prayerful state from a place of trust, then speak from your heart and connect with your powerful intention as you end with gratitude for being heard and answered with all that is for your highest good.

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, specializes in helping those who have been the victim of sexual trauma to heal from that pain and abuse so they can become victorious in all areas of their lives. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Spiritual Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom.

Her program targets the energetic heart center where every emotional memory and its triggers are stored. Once these memories are cleared and healed you’ll be able to live life on your terms, as your authentic self, empowered to live your life on purpose as the person you came here to be. Move from victim to victorious by healing your heart and transforming your life!

Message her for a complimentary, thirty-minute consultation at  http://www.marciamartinthehearthealer.com/contact.html.

 

 

How To Give And Receive Unconditionally

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Dearest hearts as you enter into this season of celebration when all are encouraged to give, give, give we want you to understand why giving without receiving is out of Divine alignment and why giving or receiving with conditions attached is also out of alignment.

First, understand that the giver who is unable to receive soon becomes an empty vessel. Once you have given of yourself without replenishing it’s only a matter of time before you’re then unable to continue to give. The well has run dry and no matter how good your intention, there’s just nothing left from which to give. Those who had benefitted from your giving may feel angry that the well has run dry and express their anger by abandoning you, thereby making a situation that’s already difficult just that much harder. You may feel bereft, adrift and alone wondering why all the good giving you were doing isn’t being returned in your time of need as the Law of Attraction promised it would be. Is universal law broken? Has God abandoned His promises? Is this whole cause and effect, sow and reap thing really a lie?

To answer these questions you must understand the difference between Divinely aligned giving and receiving and desperate grasping. When you are fully aligned, you’re connected to Source and you’re no longer alone in your giving. You are now part of a team. The energy you share with others is coming not from your humanness but from your God-centered self. Therefore, what you put forth is not of you (self-generated) but is coming through you (of the holy spirit) and thereby can be easily regenerated. When you give from your place of alignment you’re an inspired giver, you’re giving because it feels good to do so and you’re giving from an overflowing well of abundance. This type of giving activates the Law of Attraction to bring you more that will fill you to overflowing with inspiration and abundance. This is giving from a place of joy.

When you’re giving to get, you’re giving believing that you can activate the 10x rule by giving from a place of desperation. When you become desperate, you believe, erroneously, that something you need, desire or crave is being withheld from you. You also assume that you can manipulate or bargain with God so universal law will begin operating in your favor. With this mindset, you begin strategic or conditioned giving. You may think to yourself, “I want to receive ten times the amount of money I put out because that was God’s promise. So, I’m going to get the money I need by tithing 1/10th of my desired return.” You may even feel quite smug and self-satisfied as though you’ve outsmarted the rest of the pack by using universal law to pay your bills but unless you’re coming from a place of uplifting inspiration, you’ve placed the condition of needy desperation on that tithe. Now the seed you’ve planted is not one of growth and abundance but trickery and manipulation. You’re saying to the universe, “Please ignore the desperation that’s pouring forth from my energetic being which is repelling abundance and attracting poverty and transform it into energy that will attract the abundance I so desperately need.” No matter how many times you ask. No matter how you plead, beg or cry the unwanted energy you send forth will not magically transform and be returned to you as a high vibrational offering.

You are responsible for the energy you produce. You are responsible for the thoughts you think, the actions you take and the words you choose to share with others. There is no neutral territory when it comes to the energy that you’re sharing. You’re either uplifting to yourself and others or you’re draining the energy from the room by focusing on what’s wrong.

If you choose to understand and respect universal laws you will easily be able to act in harmony with them.  However, you will never be able to change them to do what you want them to do. In order to be able to function as a physical being and have a world that supports you, there must be in place a set of supports that determines how everything will react in relation to everything else. This reaction must be predictable and measurable for if it’s not, if it were random and chaotic, life could not be sustained. This means you can learn what the laws are and how to function within them but you will never be able to manipulate the laws or cause them to react differently. You may change your behavior and your reactions for you are a conscious, expansive being but the laws do not and will not change.

Therefore, during this holiday season, many of you may go from one extreme to the other trying to find a balance of giving and receiving. We advise that before you engage with anyone or anything in any way that you take the time to go within. Take a deep breath, close your eyes and relax into the energetic space of the heart where your divine connection to Source resides. Take a few moments to expand your awareness into that space, allow yourself to be filled to overflowing with love from Source. Now, note the condition of this love. It’s without pretense. It’s without demands, restrictions and limitations. It’s pure in its intent. It renews and restores. It fills you to overflowing, it encourages you to shine so brightly that you automatically share your love with others. However, this love does not demand or manipulate. It simply encourages you to be your best. Connect with that love, that feeling of well-being and allow it to pour forth from you. In this spirit of overflow give freely to those around you as you maintain your connection to Source so that that which is gifted to others can be replenished within you. When you give from your connectedness you give purely and perfectly. You’re able to give from the space of abundance instead of the place of desperation and you will therefore naturally attract more abundance. Because you chose to give from a place of unification with Source instead of isolation from the Divine, you’re then able to give and receive without an agenda. Since you’re already receiving from infinite abundance you no longer have a need to manipulate people or circumstances out of desperation.

Giving and receiving from the balanced and connected heart of the Divine Source enables you to be wise and generous in your interactions. Safe within the cocoon that is the unconditional love of Source you give as guided and receive what you desire. You recognize you’re not alone and that you’re worthy of receiving all of the abundance that’s pouring forth upon you. From this place of self-worth and self-love, you can give without condition as you inspire yourself and others to open their hearts and minds to a union with the Divine. It’s your partnership and not a solo act that will enable you to maintain a balance in your giving and receiving while staying in a place of abundance.

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, specializes in helping those who have been the victim of sexual trauma to heal from that pain and abuse so they can become victorious in all areas of their lives. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Spiritual Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom.

Her program targets the energetic heart center where every emotional memory and its triggers are stored. Once these memories are cleared and healed you’ll be able to live life on your terms, as your authentic self, empowered to live your life on purpose as the person you came here to be. Move from victim to victorious by healing your heart and transforming your life!

Message her for a complimentary, thirty-minute consultation at  http://www.marciamartinthehearthealer.com/contact.html.

How To Fully Open Your Heart During the 11-11-11 Gateway Event

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Dearest ones when synchronicities such as the 11-11-11 portal enter your awareness you must surrender to the magic that abounds during this period. This is a time to go deep into trust. Step away from the surface and the trivial aspects of your life and put your full attention and effort into going within. At the center of every being, burns the Divine light of the Creator. This light is the fire that fuels creation. Without this flame, you would not exist for it’s impossible for you to have created yourselves or for you to sustain yourselves once you have been established as a co-creator with the Divine.

Because God is a God of love and love is all forgiving there is nothing you could do or say that could cause God to withdraw their love from you. There is nothing and no way that you can be cast forth from the bosom of all there is. You can dim the light, lessen the connection and pretend there is no God. You can go so far as to boldly proclaim that there’s no God, and state that you exist as an individual separate from all else. You can say these words and believe them to be true, you may even fashion a reality that attempts to prove the validity of your statements. But no matter how hard you try, no matter how many delusions you create for yourself, you can never make a universal truth, a lie. You will always be connected to and a part of God. You will always be loved and you can never be forsaken.

With this understanding, we advise that you go deeper. This is a time of great awakening. Masses of people who believed they were separate now realize they are a united body. Those who competed relentlessly for the top spot are now making room at the table as the spirit of cooperation begins to unfurl. And those who were once looked upon with contempt are beginning to be seen for who they are. Within this spirit of unity, there is still pain, division and competition but slowly you are beginning to answer the call of the heart and it’s in this that you’ll find peace as well as the answers you seek. Therefore, as you enter this period of expanded, upgraded and intensified energy you must take time for a heart clearing. This does not have to be done every day but you must honor the heart at least once while you have the assistance of energy of this magnitude. Whenever you participate in any sacred ceremony you will greatly increase your chances of connecting at the deepest level when you take advantage of a naturally occurring phenomenon that will intensify your own energetic pattern.

Keep in mind that all energy will be intensified at this time. This is why it’s so important to participate in at least one heart clearing. The intensification of energy is not restricted to positive energy. If you choose to drag around a heavy sack of negative thoughts, emotions, limiting beliefs and past trauma you will find that your negative feelings are magnified. Be on the alert for how you’re sabotaging yourself. If you feel overwhelmed, critical and shameful or you’re allowing pity, victimization and pain to control your thoughts you will find yourself in a dark place. The possibility of suicidal thoughts during a period of intensive energy is very likely if you regularly indulge in the lower vibrational energies. Understand, that you are not being punished, God is not out to get you and you are not a victim. You always have the choice to think uplifting thoughts, take positive action and raise your vibration. No one is holding you down. You are holding yourself down and the energy of this gateway is simply magnifying the energy that you’re choosing to honor. Therefore, the first step in your heart clearing practice should always be, to take responsibility. No one put you anywhere, no one made your life miserable, no one is to blame. You can change the current situation from one of hopelessness to one of joy. Begin by stating to yourself, “I am responsible for my thoughts, actions and reactions. No one has power over me but me.”

Now that you’ve firmly stated your truth, take action to dismantle the false and limiting beliefs that are allowing you to feel overwhelmed with negativity. Use this surging energy to make your spiritual work even easier. Go deeply into the heart and lovingly examine that which you hold dear. Begin first with the beliefs that you accepted as a child. Pay particular attention to the religious and societal beliefs that were a part of the fabric in which you grew up. Examine these beliefs for unloving attitudes such as fear, prejudice, blame, shame, superiority, etc. We do not ask that you abandon your religion or your community but we do advise that you look at each article, each pillar of your belief system and ask yourself, “Does this support me and others or divide us?” If the belief is God-centered it will be loving and supportive of you as well as your neighbor. This is what is meant when you were instructed to, “Love your brother as you love yourself.” When you come from love and are willing to receive love, the end product is a more powerful and more perfect society. As you address each belief system with the loving energy pouring forth upon you during this time of deep cleansing and awakening, remember to exist only in love.

Once you have made peace with the beliefs you hold, move onto the grudges. It’s imperative that you release all resentment and thoughts of revenge. You’ve entered into a time of high vibrational energy. If you try to drag your lower vibrational thoughts into this high vibrational space you’ll feel as though your soul has been cleaved in two. It’s impossible to bring a grudge into the space of unconditional love that is God, but if you try to justify your hatred, that’s exactly what you’ll be trying to do. The result will be a psychic schism during which you’ll resort to violence or a complete psychotic break. As always the choice will be yours, as will the consequences of that choice. You may try to ignore the calling of the higher vibrations or pretend you bear no ill will toward your fellow man but your heart will know and you’ll cause yourself unnecessary pain. Take the time to call anyone with whom you bear a grudge to the altar of your heart. Lay their sins upon that altar, lay your perception of their actions on the altar, lay the hurt and heartache experienced by all upon that altar and then call upon Saint Germaine. Invoke the violet flame to cleanse and purify that which was made unclean so you may enter the space of unconditional love fully and completely. Remember to always include grievances you hold about your own person when you’re filling the altar with grudges. That which is uttered as self-criticism is not spoken from a place of love.

Once you have examined your beliefs and released the grudges, place your entire being into the violet flame. Allow this flame of purity to dismantle any energetic streams that have become entangled or stagnant. This is a time of intense love which encourages wellness on every level: body, mind and spirit. Instead of complaining about what’s not working in your life, it’s time to release old patterns and fully let go. Step into the violet flame and immerse yourself in the powerful energy of this ray as you open more completely to the unconditional love pouring forth from your  Divine Creator.

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, specializes in helping those who have been the victim of sexual trauma to heal from that pain and abuse so they can become victorious in all areas of their lives. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Spiritual Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom.

Her program targets the energetic heart center where every emotional memory and its triggers are stored. Once these memories are cleared and healed you’ll be able to live life on your terms, as your authentic self, empowered to live your life on purpose as the person you came here to be. Move from victim to victorious by healing your heart and transforming your life!

Message her for a complimentary, thirty-minute consultation at  http://www.marciamartinthehearthealer.com/contact.html.

 

Shame on You – The Debilitating Effects of Shame and Blame

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Dear ones so much of your attempt to control each other is through the mechanism of shame. Conversely, the one who’s being shamed will than try to shift the burden of guilt, the heavy weight of negativity off of themselves, by blaming another from whom they fear no retaliation. Often choosing one who’s perceived to be weaker or out of reach. Therefore, we must ask, “Wouldn’t it serve you better to respond to each other with love?”

Shame has been hard-wired into the ego’s survival system but you are more than the ego. You are not at the mercy of fate, nor are you without the capacity to reason. You’re simply not thinking, instead, you’re content to react and those reactions, unless you’ve trained yourselves differently, are coming from a place of fear. When you feel compelled to shame another it’s not because you believe you’re helping them by correcting them in this matter, no, you’re suffering from a fear illusion. When you shame the behavior of someone you’re doing so because you’re afraid that their shameful behavior will make you look bad. It’s not the one you’re shaming that you care about at this moment, it’s what others will think of you that matters. You’re attempt to shame another is really you trying to avoid the embarrassment that the actions of the other may cause you. It’s also a way to assert your superiority but never is it a loving gesture offered for the wellbeing of another, therefore, shame cannot come from God.

Anything that comes from God will be loving and non-destructive. All that comes from ego will be self-satisfying and destructive. Yet, how can you tell when you’re caught up in that moment when blame and shame seem to be the only logical answer to unseemly behavior? You must always check in with your heart. The mind may tell you, “You’re doing the right thing! You’re offering loving correction! They deserved it!” and so on but the heart is not so easily deceived. If you find yourself feeling or acting smug, superior or holier than others you’re in danger of answering to the divisiveness of the ego. No good comes to you by forcing others into negativity, by shaming or blaming. You must remember that you live in a circular universe. What you put forth will find its way back to you. Therefore, when you stride forth with righteousness to cast blame and hurl shame upon another, you would be best served by looking behind you at the wave of negativity that’s just waiting to consume you.

Conversely, if you spend your days free of judgment, observing the world from the high place of love, joy and peace while sharing kindness with others, correction when needed and unconditional love for all that they are; even when they make a mistake that could cause you embarrassment and shame you’ll need never look over your shoulder. For you will already be wearing around you a cloak of unconditional love that is shot through with the finest threads of peace and joy. If you want to live a life that feels good, break up with the ego. Stop listening to that voice which drives you forward from one misstep to the next. It’s quite easy to end your relationship with the ego, simply spend time in your heart. In the place of truth and wisdom where you will be led to Divine truth.

Remember, none of you are lost and alone. All of you are on a journey of experiences that are designed to help you grow. This means that you’ll swing along the arc of the pendulum from victim to perpetrator. None of you came here to be saints and never put a foot wrong. All of you came here to learn. Learning means winning and losing, succeeding and failing. Acting in love and hurting others out of fear. We seek to guide you into great successes, more wins and unconditional love but it will never happen if you wield the whip of shame against yourselves. As with every correction toward love, you must first begin with yourself. This is imperative because every being has been given, by the Divine, the right to choose. What God gives, you do not have the power or the right to take away. Therefore, you must begin with yourself when implementing any new behavior. Yet, this must be done without force. Give yourself permission to receive loving kindness. Give yourself permission to exist without shame. Give yourself permission to feel good about every aspect of yourself. Until you feel good about you, you’re never going to feel good or act lovingly toward others. Feel good about you, then extend it to all others. Be the lighthouse that guides instead of the battering ram that demolishes.

Now that you’ve agreed to stop using an eye of criticism toward yourself and others you should feel the burden you’re carrying begin to lighten. Negativity is a heavyweight and when you carry it for long periods it causes you to break. It prevents you from giving and receiving thereby isolating you from the one thing none of you can live without, love.  When you shout while pointing an accusatory finger, “Just look what you’ve done! What will the neighbors think? How will I hold my head up in public? I am ashamed because of you!” You shrivel the essence, the part of you that is you and give rise to the ego, the false self that answers only to fear. This day and every day, it’s time to stop the madness. Stop giving into fear. Instead of saying, “Look what you’ve done!” Try looking at yourself in the mirror or at the child standing in front of you and say, “Everyone makes mistakes. Let’s clean this up. Put it to rights and start all over. I know you didn’t mean it.” When you forgo shame and put acceptance in its place, you’re providing a loving place of growth for your inner child as well as the child standing before you. Loving growth spaces are safe. They allow you to explore and to expand. Nothing new was ever discovered because someone was afraid to try but every advancement was made because someone pushed their fear aside and decided to give it a go.

A healthy individual, a healthy society is not one that’s confined by a harsh code of conduct enforced with shame. No, health comes when all individuals are encouraged to explore, to experiment to try without feeling they will be shamed for being different or for trying something new. Will you fall down or even fail during the process, probably, but if you refuse to give in or give up your success is as certain as your next breath.

Instead of looking for reasons to hide, for reasons why not, for ways to escape the shame of embarrassment, we want you to open to the possibility of why not. Give yourself permission to try and then give yourself permission to succeed by refusing to play the blame, shame game. You will never get it all right and you will never get it all wrong. Accept each one of these occurrences with the same grace and absolutely no shame or superiority. If you want to be a winner who feels good about themselves and makes others feel that way as well, learn how to offer loving acceptance in the place of shame.

Whenever you feel tempted to point your finger and shame all over yourself or someone else. Ask yourself, “Will this behavior make me feel good? Will it lift me up? Will it resolve the issue? Will it right the wrong?” Shame heaps more wrong on top of a mistake and causes both parties to become buried under the weight of negativity. Unconditional love releases both parties from blame and lifts all into a higher vibrational space. When love is your guide, you’ll be proud to say, “Look what I’ve done!”

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, specializes in helping those who have been the victim of sexual trauma to heal from that pain and abuse so they can become victorious in all areas of their lives. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Spiritual Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom.

Her program targets the energetic heart center where every emotional memory and its triggers are stored. Once these memories are cleared and healed you’ll be able to live life on your terms, as your authentic self, empowered to live your life on purpose as the person you came here to be. Move from victim to victorious by healing your heart and transforming your life!

Message her for a complimentary, thirty-minute consultation at  http://www.marciamartinthehearthealer.com/contact.html.

How To Let Go Of Guilt

Letting go of guilt

Dearest hearts we come to you today with great hope in our hearts for if we can help any of you lay aside the burden of guilt, all of you will be better for it. Within the collective consciousness of which you are a part, what one learns you all learn on some level. Therefore, if we can help even one of you gain your freedom, all of you will benefit. Guilt is one of the most corrosive of all of the negative emotions and one of the most insidious because you can often justify its presence. Think of guilt as a child of fear and you will understand how sly and deceitful guilt can be. You must never trust feelings of guilt to represent truth but you must always dig down beneath the energy of guilt to the underlying cause.

If you have trespassed upon your own wellbeing or the wellbeing of another than those feelings of guilt are prodding you to do the right thing, the spiritually mature thing and make right the wrong by apologizing, forgiving or by engaging in some other form of corrected behavior that stops the hurt or the damage from continuing. A person who is heart-centered who has done the work necessary to free themselves from the darkness of negativity will use guilt appropriately and allow it to be a tool that guides loving behavior. You will all have moments when you say or do something that’s inappropriate and that action will make you feel guilty. This is acceptable as long as you correct the inappropriate behavior, make suitable amends and let go of all guilt from that point forward. The action was taken, then it was corrected. The wrong was righted and now you must let it go with a joyful heart. Continuing to beat yourself up over an inappropriate action is not freeing, it’s not spiritual, it’s not sanctioned by the Divine and it’s not enlightened behavior. All you’re doing when you carry guilt on your back like a ten-ton sack is to consign yourself to negativity, to the lowest vibration and to unhappiness. None of you rise by chaining yourselves to the darkness but all of you are capable of rising by letting it go. Let go of the guilt, don’t wear it as a badge of honor.

In order to make this practice easy, we have three daily activities that will help you spend the majority of your days in the highest vibration of love, joy and peace. The first spiritual practice we advise you to take part in daily is that of forgiveness. Beginning with the self, learn loving acceptance instead of harsh criticism. Every day in a quiet time before bed, commit to a daily review. During this review period take a look at your day. What felt good, what went well, what would you like more of? Tuck those experiences in your heart and wrap them in love.

Now turn your attention to the missteps, those times you could have done better. If they make you feel shame and guilt, they too must be wrapped in love but instead of holding them in your heart offer them up to the Divine by simply stating, “Please take this burden from me.” Then, let it go. If you try to hold onto it or continue to review it by poking and prodding at the problem, you’ll create a new energetic attachment to it and you’ll have to repeat the above practice. You’ll need to let it go all over again. In the beginning, as you learn to forgive yourself and others for missteps you’ll need to repeat the process over and over again until you no longer stir the pot of unwanted memories. You must continue to let go of the guilt until it’s out of your mind or until you feel complete. Don’t attach to a specific number of repetitions, continue until you are successful.

Next, you must enter into a period of gratitude. First, you cleared the energetic space by letting go of the misstep by forgiving it in yourself and others. Now you must replace the energy of shame and guilt with the energy of gratitude. With deliberate and concentrated focus choose several things for which you can be sincerely grateful. When you cleared away the guilt you created an open space in your energetic body. As you focus on gratitude you’re allowing the cleared space to be filled with unconditional love. Gratitude is the act of being thankful for all that you have. Vast quantities of things are not necessary for gratitude to be present but a willing heart is necessary. A heart that has become overrun with guilt is not the pure place that God intended. This is why you must first forgive yourself and all others so that that which is divine in nature can find a home in your heart. Spend no time making room for negativity or negative thoughts and feelings and all of your time making room and creating a welcoming space for all that is positive or divine in nature. Each one of you is divine, so for you, this work is not hard or complicated. We urge you not to allow it to be anything but easy. If you find yourself feeling confused and overwhelmed you’re trying to make the simple, complicated. Therefore, simply let go of whatever belief you’re holding that’s complicating your thinking.

By this point, you have forgiven the confusion that led to a mistake in yourself and all others and you’ve found several reasons to be sincerely grateful. We now advise that you spend considerable time washing and renewing your spirit in this gratitude energy. Just allow the energy of gratitude to enfold you like a cloak of soft, warm material. Within the confines of this energy, you are safe and loved and automatically elevated to the high place of love, joy and peace. Let go of the heaviness of guilt and give yourself the freedom to fly.

Once you feel warmed and full of gratitude it’s time to extend this energy even further and tap into the eternal source of all power. Now that you’ve stepped out of blame and guilt and wrapped yourself in soft blankets of all that your grateful for, its time to venture forth boldly into love. Letting go of all knowledge of love with conditions, terms and restrictions, open yourself to receive from Source unconditional love. Love that has no expectation, no qualifying criteria and no threat of loss. In other words, love that carries no guilt. Open your heart to receive the blessing of this love as it pours forth from the Divine unceasingly and unchanging across all time and space. Allow yourself to be vulnerable, to be chid like and non-judgmental in the presence of this perfection. Allow yourself to merely exist and receive. You have irradicated guilt with forgiveness. You have elevated yourselves to the highest vibration with gratitude. Now allow yourselves to flow more fully into that space of oneness with all, into the perfect place of peace, by opening your entire being to the unconditional love of God. There is no greater gift you can give yourself.

You came here to explore and experiment to grow and to learn. You did not come here to be burdened by guilt. Step into your fullness by letting go of guilt and replacing its negativity with the high vibrational energy of love, joy and peace. Know guilt for what it is and forgive but do not make it something it’s not and allow it to be a millstone around your neck. Live free, live in joy and share your love with all.

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, specializes in helping those who have been the victim of sexual trauma to heal from that pain and abuse so they can become victorious in all areas of their lives. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Spiritual Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom.

Her program targets the energetic heart center where every emotional memory and its triggers are stored. Once these memories are cleared and healed you’ll be able to live life on your terms, as your authentic self, empowered to live your life on purpose as the person you came here to be. Move from victim to victorious by healing your heart and transforming your life!

Message her for a complimentary, thirty-minute consultation at  http://www.marciamartinthehearthealer.com/contact.html.

 

I’ve Made So Many Mistakes, Can I Have A Do-Over For My Life?

Do-over For My Life

Dear ones we want you to stop looking at times when things didn’t go as planned and thinking of them as mistakes. You’re not making mistakes, you’re simply learning what to do and what not to do. We ask that you stop confining yourselves to the harsh world of black and white or right and wrong. Instead, we want you to soften your approach and the way you view every circumstance. Within ever action that went wrong, there will be some right, concentrate on the right instead of the wrong. Among the rubble of discarded actions, of thoughts that appeared to serve no purpose or of feelings that never led anywhere are the jewels. You must carefully pick your way through that rubble of what didn’t work to find the gems of what did work or what was working. They will always be there but unless you purposefully look for them they’ll be overlooked and you’ll find yourself attaching to the drama of what’s wrong.

From this point forward begin demanding more from yourself. Instead of assuming that you’re powerless in the world, that you don’t matter or that your presence is too insignificant to make a difference begin being an agent for change in your own life. Begin right now from where you are and become a deliberate participant. Begin actively choosing the thoughts you think, begin deliberately deciding what thoughts you’re going to encourage and which you’re going to allow to pass you by. By always remembering that that which you give your attention to becomes greater, you must joyfully let go of what didn’t work, of when you tried and didn’t succeed or when you thought you’d done well only to discover that you’d failed miserably. Those times will stick out at you, they’ll mock you and taunt you that you’re just not good enough but we remind you, this is a lie. Each one of you is a product, a creation of the Divine. You are made in their likeness and image, therefore you are like them. You are divine. You are not wholly Divine as they are so it’s possible for you to make mistakes, to continue to learn and to grow, yet because you are divine you’re already perfect. In whatever form you’ve chosen for this life journey, with whatever ability you’ve brought with you for this journey and through whatever setbacks you encounter on this journey you are divine. Perfect in every way for the life you have chosen, however, you are not yet complete. Allow your perfection to remind you of all that’s right. Allow your journey to be one of growth, of moving toward completion by acquiring experience and knowledge as you move from one right action to the next and from one right thought and feeling to the next.

This cannot happen if you refuse to see and accept your own greatness. If you choose to remain hypercritical and stay focused on all that’s wrong then this is the life experience you will attract. Yet, even though you’ve chosen to look at what’s wrong you’ve not made a mistake, you’ve simply chosen to focus on the path of most resistance. Although this path is much more difficult than the path of least resistance, which is chosen when you focus on what’s right, the path of most resistance has many benefits. When you’re constantly being confronted by things you don’t want or things that don’t work you quickly learn you have two choices. As always, it’s important to remember that your free will is about choice. Because you always have free will (This is a gift from God that cannot be revoked under any circumstances) you always have a choice. Even the choice not to choose or to believe you are powerless is a choice. So when you focus on what’s going wrong you’ll generally make one of two choices: give up or try something new. If you’ve been looking at what’s wrong we want you to try something new.

This will require your active participation, especially in the beginning as you learn to switch your focus from what’s wrong to what’s right. Remember that your attention is your power. Whatever you give your attention to is what’s going to become the power in your life. If you give your attention to how weak, small and insignificant you are, you’re making a powerful statement to yourself about yourself. With every thought, word and deed you’re reaffirming to yourself and to those you interact with that you’re weak. You are so powerful that you can delude yourself and others into believing that you’re without power. Take a moment now and think about how much of an impact you would have on your own life and the world in general if you began to see yourself as a powerfully good, strong and wise person. Instead of shrinking in fear from all that you are, it would be magnificent for you and for the world for you to use the power that is you for good, for change, for the expression of your authentic self which is a loving, empowered being.

The world you inhabit is filled with people who have lost their way, you don’t have to be one of them. It doesn’t matter when you arrive at this place of deciding, when you wake up and wish you could do it all over, it only matters that instead of pining for the past and wishing things could be different you focus on this moment and put all of your energy into moving forward by focusing on everything that’s right. There are no magic wands, you won’t wake up tomorrow to a wonderland of perfection but with your determination and your discipline, with your dedication to looking at what’s right to the exclusion of all else you’ll begin creating your heaven on earth.

The paradise you dream of is yours for the asking but you must refocus and pay attention to all that you have, to all that you’re doing right and to all that you’re learning through those activities that didn’t go as planned. Begin to think of all that’s going well in your life as treasure and all that’s not going well as poison. Every time you turn your attention to what’s right you become a little richer because you’re adding to your treasure chest but every time you look at what’s wrong you become a little sicker because you’ve ingested poison. Now it’s your turn, which do you want? Do you want to be rich or sick? As always, the choice is yours and the power of your choice determines your fate. It doesn’t come from an outside force, no one is doing anything to you. You choose moment by moment whether you’ll become richer or sicker.

So, for those of you who look back and beg for a do-over, a chance to bring your wisdom from the present with you into the past, we advise that you do the present correctly by looking at all you’re doing right. If you want to revisit the past do so by looking at all you did that was right, look at all the choices you made that were empowering and all the times you felt great about being you. Your happiness can never be found by doing something over while cursing yourself for making a mistake in the first place but joy can be found by acknowledging all that you’ve learned, all that you’ve done right and all that feels good. Allow yourself to be your most powerful presence by focusing on all that’s right.

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, specializes in helping those who have been the victim of sexual trauma to heal from that pain and trauma so they can become victorious in all areas of their lives. Calling upon her extensive education and her intuitive gifts as well as angelic assistance, she’ll bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Spiritual Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you, prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that’s running in the background and sabotaging your life, you become victorious and experience true freedom.

Her program targets the energetic heart center where every emotional memory and its triggers are stored. Once these memories are cleared and healed you’ll be able to live life on your terms, as your authentic self, empowered to live your life on purpose as the person you came here to be. Heal your heart and transform your life!

Message her for a complimentary, thirty-minute consultation at  http://www.marciamartinthehearthealer.com/contact.html.