What If I Fail?

What If I Fail

Before you began this physical journey, while you were still entirely in the energetic state you assigned for yourself challenges and personality traits as well as a skill set that you would bring forth with you, so that you, dear ones, could accomplish the mission you had assigned to yourself in this lifetime. From your vantage point in the etheric realm you felt excited and confident that you would not only gain valuable insight from the life experiences you had charted but that you would also come forth into the world fully confident of your success. There was great excitement and anticipation about what you would encounter as well as the contribution you would make to help the world move forward in it’s conscious evolution. You did not contemplate failure. From your energetic state you knew you were powerful, unique and that you bore a gift to share; you were eager to share your knowledge as you added to your own knowledge from the teaching of others. You did not contemplate failure because you knew the truth of who you were. You knew the power of your authentic self as part of Source and you knew that within you, you had the power to shape and therefore produce your desires from the energy surrounding you. You did not believe it was possible for you to fail for you knew the truth of who you were and you knew the power under your command.

But then you arrived, a fully conscious energetic being trapped in a newly formed physical being which was incapable of doing for itself and that weakness made you question all that you knew. Perhaps you were not the all powerful creator you thought yourself to be since you had limited control over the physical body you now inhabited. Perhaps these bigger, more mobile beings around you knew something you as yet did not comprehend and perhaps you should listen and learn from then instead of trusting that which you had known so intimately on the other side. After all, you had forgotten most of what you had known on the other side and you had only the rarest of glimpses with which to console yourself. And so slowly you moved further into their belief systems and further from the truth of your authentic self. You may have begun feeling lost and confused as you struggled for traction in what had become a hostile world. Then slowly you let go of of the truth you once knew so intimately and you surrendered to the world’s view joining the rank of others who had forgotten why they had come.

All of you were required to forget so you may learn anew the power that was you. Your forgetting was made possible so that when you began remembering it would be with greater understanding and a greater thirst for the knowledge you had forgotten you knew. When knowledge is re-born from stress, from a need greater than ever before or from a place of deep darkness, then the knowledge that pours forth contains elements of the strength you have gained along your life journey. The forgetting forces you to gain new insight from your experiences and the subsequent remembering allows you to bring all of the elements together and triumph. Therefore, we answer you, dear ones, when you ask, “What if I fail?” with a truth you are on a journey to discovering, “There is no failure possible for you or any other being on their life journey.” There are lessons to be learned, challenges to be overcome and problems to be solved that will move you forward and add to the world’s collective knowing. Perhaps it will not go as planned, perhaps you will stumble or falter but with every step you take, you will bring new awareness and new understanding into the world which will enable you and everyone you share your experiences with to grow, to profit from what you have learned and to participate in their own awakening as they allow.

No, you will never be able to control the outcome for another and you, too, will be best served if you limit your attempts to control your own outcome. For you must understand that by trying to order your steps from your limited vantage point of the physical world you may in turn limit your success. Therefore, we advise that you create for yourself a goal, a grand vision of what it is that you desire, then set the intention that you will indeed find success in meeting this desire, but, allow the final end product to be assigned to you by source. Let go of the limiting belief that dictates how far you can fly and open for yourselves a limitless window of opportunity by remembering you are far more than the physical body you inhabit. Now, set forth on your path, explore your gifts and commit to being of service to the world by honoring all that you are without putting a limit on how far you can go. Remember always that you cannot fail, you can only learn more than you knew yesterday and you can only remember more of who you are and who you came here to be. Let go of failure and embrace the possibilities knowing that each step forward, each new experience makes you greater than you were before.

There is no failure in growth, there is only a deepened understanding that will lead you ultimately to your goal. Not a physical place in time or space but a place where you awakened to the full realization of who you are as your authentic self.

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Marcia Martin M Ed – The Heart Healer, your relationship expert therapist, uses her extensive education as well as her intuitive gifts to bring you a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Spiritual Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that is running in the background and sabotaging your life, you experience true freedom.

Her program targets the energetic heart center where every emotional memory and it’s triggers are stored. Once these memories are cleared and healed you are able to live life on your terms, as your authentic self, empowered to live your life on purpose as the person you came here to be. Heal your heart and transform your life!

Schedule your complimentary, thirty minute consultation today.

 

 

How Can I Help Others, If I Am Not Completely Healed?

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Dear ones when you focus on the broken bits and the pieces of yourself that are not complete you lose the bigger picture, the scope of what you have accomplished and all that you have learned. Is it possible that you will learn more, grow in knowledge and gain in strength? Absolutely! But we also guarantee you that there is someone who desperately needs what you have already learned. Think back on the beginning of your own journey and ask yourself, “Did I worry that the teacher may not have every answer or was I just grateful for all that was being shared with me?” You will answer, if you are answering honestly that the light of knowledge shining forth was welcome and beckoning and you never worried about what may happen several years in the future because you were consumed with just moving forward from where you were. None of you will stop receiving opportunities to grow and all of you will always have more knowledge that can be obtained but if you wait to share what you know until you know it all, you’ll never get to the place or time when you are ready to begin. You will lose our on the opportunity to share, to give and to build another up and the world will lose our on the opportunity to be enlightened by what you have learned.

Many of you feel unworthy to share all that you  have discovered citing that there are others who are more advanced than you are but we want you to remember, there is no one like you. There is no one with your unique perspective and your breadth of experiences. Each one of you has undertaken a journey that was designed to help you understand and conquer specific life lessons but none of you are on the same journey and none of you have the same way of viewing a situation. It is this multitude of experiences, this wealth of knowledge that makes the human experience so valuable. Each one of you commits to learn and grow, to enhance your personal life but up until now only a few felt worthy to share all that you have learned. We advise that you step out from the shadows and share all that  you know. None of you will ever be the repository of the whole truth of God but each of you is a piece of the puzzle. If each of you were to commit to sharing what you had discovered there would be no one left in the darkness searching for a way out.

Each one of you brings value. Each one has come with an important role to play but if you hide your light fearing that you has as yet not learned enough or progressed sufficiently then you will be keeping your corner of the world in darkness. You may never learn  it all, you may always continue to thirst for knowledge and you may never feel complete but what you do  have is something of enormous value that another who is just beginning their journey needs to know.

Instead of looking at your life and stating that you do not know it all, begin looking at all you have learned and remind yourself that you know more than you did previously and the knowledge you now have was probably the byproduct of someone else’s sharing. Ask yourself, “Where would I be today, if someone else had not been willing to share all that they knew?” Perhaps you would have discovered the information on your own, probably through much trial and error and perhaps you would have had to study for your lifetime to understand what someone else already knew. Would you be grateful that they had seen themselves as unworthy and had therefore withheld the information from you or would you say to yourself, “Oh how I wish I had known what they knew so I could have expanded on it with my own knowledge.” This journey is one of unity not singularity. Your knowledge contributes to the greater good, their knowledge added to the communal knowledge expands upon what is already known and then you or another takes what is known and draws it out even further. As each one of you collectively and singularly use the information that has been made known and seek to advance it further.

Noe of you walk through this life alone. Whether you are surrounded by a large circle of people or you choose to isolate yourself from most, you are always interacting in some way and impressing your belief system on the collective consciousness. When you choose to share what you have learned on your journey with others, when you choose to share what worked for you and what didn’t, you are adding to the well-being of all. If you try to hide what you know fearing that it will not be enough you are preventing or slowing down your own growth. The human journey is designed to be an experience. You learn first from having the experience but you gain ownership of that experience when  you share it with others. If you want to be the master of what you have learned then you must be so intimate with your knowledge that  you are either able to teach it to others or you create from your knowledge a product or service that will help others.

Will you always know more than anybody else about a particular product or service, perhaps, but it is not likely. What is far more likely to occur is that you will know more than some and the knowledge that you do have will be just what they need to move themselves forward. You cannot wait until you know more to help another for there will always be more to know, and there will always be another aspect of yourself that needs healing. But what you can do is present to others in need of help, your expertise in this moment as you commit to learning, growing and healing in even more profound ways. You are here to help each other. Begin from where you are, using what you already know, as you continue to expand your own knowledge and expertise.

No one is helped if everyone is waiting until they are completely healed, but everyone is helped if each one commits to sharing what they have learned.

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Marcia Martin M Ed, The Heart Healer, offers a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Spiritual Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that is running in the background and sabotaging your life, you experience true freedom.

Her program targets the energetic heart center where every emotional memory and it’s triggers are stored. Once these memories are cleared and healed you are able to live life on your terms, as your authentic self, empowered to live your life on purpose as the person you came here to be. Heal your heart and transform your life!

Schedule your complimentary, thirty minute consultation today.

 

 

It’s Not What you See, But What You Say About It That Matters!

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Dear ones, once you understand this concept there will be nothing you cannot do but until you understand this concept you will be able to do nothing.

Let us explain! When you look around you and see tings that appear solid or real you then create a thought about those objects which translates into a belief about those things which you are looking at. This means that you created a belief based on what you were seeing or looking at. In your mind you were saying to yourself, “I see this object with my physical eyes, therefore, I am now convinced that the object exists and that it is the shape, substance and size that my eyes have shown me.” Based on that belief on then go about creating a life that acts in accordance with that belief and you thereby practice your belief systems and make then even more real to your selves. Never once do we hear you say, :Just because my eyes tell me something is this way, that doesn’t make it so.” Up until now that is. Now many of you are looking beyond the physical on every level and into the energetic. You are questioning what you see and hear, looking for new depths and hidden meanings as you learn to use all of your senses and not just the five limited to the physical realm.

We want you to understand that unless you can see through the seemingly solid physical level into the energetic you will not be able to conceive that everything is energy for it will look solid and unmovable; but if you want to become a master creator and an excellent manifester than you will have to be able to see the fluidity in all things. You will have to be able to understand that energy is constantly in motion and shifting from one place to the next. Once you realize that energy is already in constant motion it will be easy for you to understand how you can move energy. Once you realize that your thoughts are comprised of the same energy that makes up the chair you’re seating on, then you will begin to understand why you can be a master creator.

For example we want you to begin at point zero, a place of no thought and no thing. It is not possible for this to exist but it is useful for our example. Now imagine that you bring energy into this empty space. The energy would at first be formless, just holding space, but as you began to focus and to concentrate with your mind so that your thoughts were consistently precise about with is you wanted to form our of that neutral energy, you would see that the tool of your focused thoughts and the energy they possessed would begin shaping the formless energy into whatever those thoughts were focused upon.

Therefore, when you talk about your life as you see it, “I am in debt, I don’t have any money, friends, love or what have you, you are imprinting upon the energy that surrounds you an instruction. You are saying to this energy, “Form into debt, form into large, past due bills, form into loneliness: and you could go on forever creating what you don’t want by continuing to talk abut it and solidify the reality of your current situation. Understand that whenever you say, “I see this, therefore, it is true,” you have made it true for you. The experience you are talking about does not have to be valid, you just have to believe that is what you are seeing and then it becomes true. Unless you believe it to be true, it will not be true for you.

Now let us again move to that empty space of energy that we visited earlier. Let us share with you how to create what you desire. You begin by simply assuming that no matter what you see before you, you have the ability to put something new in it’s place. No matter what you see, no matter how long it takes and no matter what others may say about the matter, you must remain resolute. You must talk about what you desire in great detail so that it looks and feels real to you. You must take you attention away from whatever you are seeing and put it firmly on what you are manifesting. Let no one and nothing steer your attention, your conversation or your belief away from what you are trying to create. Know every intricate detail of your creation from top to bottom, become familiar with tit from every angle so that is is as if you can see it with your physical eyes. Now get excited about what you are seeing, get delighted that you are a master creator and that you have created such a miracle in your life. Be excited about having this in your life and think about how much better your life has become now that it’s here. Then be grateful for your ability to create and express gratitude for what you have created. Now that you believe that you area a powerful creator, now that you can see this miracle happening in your life and now that you are grateful for this miracle occurring, let go of how and when it will appear. Open the window of your mind and let the butterfly of your thoughts out. Allow the ultimate creator, God, to put all of the pieces together in a form that will serve our highest good.

When you think upon the miracle you want to see, fill in the details, think and talk only of what you want and believe that you can already see it within your life. Now your halfway there but don’t stop there, instead enter into trust that the unconditionally loving energy that created you will create for you the highest good in your life. Your job is to decide what would feel good, then latch on to those thoughts that lead you to that place of feeling good. But if you hold on to those thoughts for dear life, if you grip then tightly without the faith to let them go so they can grow and bloom, then they will wither in the recesses of your mind. Open your heart to God, the ultimate Creator and allow God to put wings on your dreams and deliver them to your door.

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Marcia Martin M Ed, The Heart Healer, offers a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using her proprietary method: The Spiritual Heart Healing Technique, she guides you in accessing the memories that are holding you prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that is running in the background and sabotaging your life you experience true freedom.

Her program targets the energetic heart center where every emotional memory and it’s triggers are stored. Once these memories are cleared and healed you are able to live life on your terms, as your authentic self, empowered to live your life on purpose as the person you came here to be. Heal your heart and transform your life!

Schedule your complimentary, thirty minute consultation today.

 

Dealing with the Shame of PTSD or a Mental Health Disorder

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Dear ones we are most concerned with your need to label what is, as either good or bad, and we would much advise that you state simply that something is or is not. Once you have stepped from the good or bad label you will be able to decide what you do want in your life and what you would like to move away from. In the case of mental disorder such as PTSD or any other mental processing that is out of the “normal” range, it is best if you stop making that your point of focus and instead fill your mind with all of the myriad of times when you and your mind are functioning in perfect harmonious accord. When you fill your mind and your energetic field with all that is going right, when you take a moment to observe the beauty around you and you pay attention to the joy that you are experiencing, then the memory of the trauma will be further from your energetic vibration and be less easy for you to access.

Consider the very label of the condition which is causing you distress – PTSD – Post Traumatic Stress Disorder; this is you replaying or repeating a traumatic incident that happened in your past. Although, it is no small thing to leave trauma behind you and to ultimately release it from your energetic field, you will be best served if you do just that. Begin by letting go of the label – PTSD and of associating it with something that should be considered shameful. Instead, see it as something that was, that happened and that no longer is. In this way, you begin putting some distance between you and the incident. Now, take your attention off of labels such as shame and do not give it a time frame of  “I’ll always respond this way.” Then begin filling the space you’ve created between the incident and your present self with things that make you feel good. Put your attention on all things pleasant to look at, sounds that are pleasant to hear and activities that are pleasant to engage in. Whenever your mind tries to return to the traumatizing incident or tries to tell you that you have a reason to be ashamed, gently turn your mind away from those thoughts and turn it toward thoughts that are pleasing, soothing and feel good. In the beginning, you may have to create those feel good moments and you may feel as though you are making them up but as you go along, the mind will begin retraining and will naturally move away from what is not wanted to what is.

Understand that each experience creates a neural pathway in the brain and if the experience is intense or traumatic the pathway created will be deeper and the brain will be more likely to follow this path. However, with gentle re-direction, with persistence and patience this pathway will be overwritten by your new information. We advise that you employ both gentleness and patience in your practice, the trauma you received was a result of violence or harshness that was unexpected or prolonged so you want to counter the abrupt nature of violence with soothing, predictability. In time given enough focus on what you do want, the energy of that which is unwanted will no longer be active.

In addition to taking on the role of patient protector of what you do want you may also take a more active role in re-establishing your mental balance. Understand that each one of you are powerful creators and that you may choose to maintain that power or give it away to someone who you view as stronger than yourself. There is no one stronger than yourself, there is no one greater than yourself but in order to understand that you are powerful you must begin assuming responsibility for your actions. When you take responsibility for how you respond you are no longer assigning power to another individual or circumstance and you have recognized your right to choose. You now have the opportunity to choose how you react. In the beginning this will seem unnatural and perhaps, even forced but remember that the old behavior was unnatural in the beginning as well. Behavior only becomes accepted as natural after you’ve practiced and rewarded it for a considerable period of time. To assist you in establishing new behavior take the time to do energy clearing exercises. Commit to clearing the old, unwanted energy from your energetic field as many times as necessary until you can truly take a deep, cleansing breath and until you indeed feel that you are free to choose. Even though the trauma you are re-experiencing was unexpected and thereby created a bigger impact it can still be ushered out of your energetic field. Do the energy clearing repeatedly until all tendrils have been removed and than refuse to stir the pot of PTSD by dropping that phrase, all reference to mental illness and all vestiges of shame from your thought processes and from your vocabulary.

In the beginning, this will require your constant attention and your laser focus. You must become hyper-aware of the conversation you are having with yourself and with others about yourself. Your new condition is healthy and vibrant, your new state of being is up beat and happy and your new way of thinking is that you are a powerful creator capable of choosing the thoughts and reactions you wish to engage in. We must stress that clearing yourself of unwanted energy will speed up the process but it will be your continual focus on what you do want that will bring you lasting reward. Behavior is the end product of thoughts and actions that are repeated over and over again so if you want to end the reign of terror of PTSD you must take action and move your thoughts and feelings into the arena of what you do want. Not just once but over and over again until you are free.

Do not let labels determine your behavior, dispose of shame and stand proud that you are a powerful creator fully capable of creating what you do want.

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Spiritual Heart Healing with Marcia Martin M Ed, The Heart Healer, offers a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using my proprietary method: The Spiritual Heart Healing Technique, I guide you in accessing the memories of the heart that are holding you prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that is running in the background and sabotaging your life you experience true freedom.

My program targets the energetic heart center where every emotional memory and it’s triggers are stored. Once these memories are cleared and healed you are able to live life on your terms, as your authentic self, empowered to live your life on purpose as the person you came here to be.

By going into the darkness that exists in the unconscious and within the heart, I help you heal illuminate and transform your life. Healing from the heart, the most powerful energetic center in the human body enables you to experience the total transformation you’ve been seeking.

I offer a complimentary thirty minute consultation so that I may learn about your situation and you may ask any questions you have regarding my work.

Feeling Overwhelmed is Part of the Process

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Dear ones when the storm clouds gather and the darkness consumes, it is not a time of sorrow, nor is it a time for grieving. You see, it is a time of rejoicing for you have reached a precipice. Failure is not looming at your door or nipping at your heels but opportunity is knocking and asking you to make a choice. If you choose to look at a looming challenge as evidence that you have failed, then that expectation will be met and you will indeed encounter failure. If you look upon the obstacle in your path as an opportunity to grow, then you will strengthen from the experience and success will be your reward. Just know that you will always encounter choices that are disguised as obstacles and that you always have the free will to make any choice that feels good to you. However, you must understand that you choice will determine the outcome and your choice thereby dictates the consequences you will now face. So we ask that you choose wisely at all times by looking at each individual situation. Do not apply the blanket rule to your life and expect to always receive the same effect, it will not happen. Instead, you must respect that life is a growth process and that there will be periods of smooth sailing and there will be periods of overwhelm. This is why we want you to look at each individual situation from the stand point of where you are at this present moment. Once you are clear on where you are physically, emotionally and energetically then ask yourself, “What  is the best choice for me to make? Which choice will help me to move forward, to grow and which choice will cause me to stagnate or possibly regress?” Never use yesterday’s yardstick for today’s obstacle but always look upon each new situation with fresh eyes that have reviewed where you are currently.

Therefore, if you are deeply in debt and you’re looking at the obstacle of paying your bills with one of two possible choices; the first being a low paying steady job that is long term and the second being a highly paid job with little potential for continued employment. You must ask yourself, “Will a steady income and a steady decrease in what is owed bring me to a place of growth and joy?” or “Would a short term high paying job give me the jump start I need to move myself forward?” By knowing who and where you are in your life you will make a better decision but you must then allow that decision to be the answer for that obstacle and when you meet the next obstacle apply the process again to determine what is your best decision in that particular moment.

To simplify this process let us give you manageable steps that you can apply to every obstacle and even though a period of overwhelm may often signify a breakthrough remember that life is always easier when the overwhelm is kept to a minimum. So, first identify the obstacle or problem that you want to solve. Second take an inventory of yourself. Who are you, how are you comfortable acting, what do you have in resources, abilities and options? Third, identify two possible solutions to your problem that diverge into different paths. For example you would not choose between buying food at the grocery store or the convenience store but rather explore the option of buying your food or growing your food. The second example represents two options that are different from each other and have different ending points. Fourth, once you have identified your two options then examine them both for their opportunity to push you in the direction of growth or leave you standing still and finally examine each choice for it’s resulting consequence. What will the result of your action be? Do not discount the option of standing still. It may bring you more time to explore something else that is a priority in your life. Also do not discount growth because it would be a considerable investment of time or require you to expand your thinking. But do realize that there will be only one right option. Therefore you must review each situation as it comes and not make rigid declarations such as, “Whenever I am faced with this obstacle, I will respond in this way.” We want you to experience flowing and the ability to adjust to ever changing scenarios. When you commit to taking things on a moment to moment basis instead of a grand life plan from which you cannot deviate then you will begin avoiding those periods of overwhelm.

Yet, overwhelm is part of the process because when you feel burdened by a circumstance you are more likely to take the action necessary to change or improve upon it. Therefore, begin to celebrate those periods of overwhelm until you become so confident in your flowing that you begin making the course adjustments before the situation becomes overwhelming. We want you to understand that you create the life you live through the choices you make. If you want a better life, learn to make better, situationally appropriate choices. And then relax and allow things to unfold. Some things will go perfectly and others will need adjustment. As long as you are making those adjustments from who and where you are today you will make better and better choices. But if you continue to make judgements about today using information about yourself that was accurate ten years ago, then you will have a hard row to hoe.

You are always evolving and your choices about how to react to a certain situation or circumstance must evolve along with you. The happiest among you, adjust. The unhappiest of those among you apply rigid rules and definitions and then try to force the situation to fit into their preconceived idea. Those who live your lives in rigidity will experience more overwhelm. Those who dedicate themselves to the process of flowing will find yourselves with more to be joyous about and more to be grateful for.

Yes, there will be obstacles but they don’t have to overwhelm you if you step into and stay in the flow of life.

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Spiritual Heart Healing with Marcia Martin M Ed, The Heart Healer, offers a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using my proprietary method: The Spiritual Heart Healing Technique, I guide you in accessing the memories of the heart that are holding you prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that is running in the background and sabotaging your life you experience true freedom.

My program targets the energetic heart center where every emotional memory and it’s triggers are stored. Once these memories are cleared and healed you are able to live life on your terms, as your authentic self, empowered to live your life on purpose as the person you came here to be.

By going into the darkness that exists in the unconscious and within the heart, I illuminate and transform your life. Healing from the heart, the most powerful energetic center in the human body enables you to experience the total transformation you’ve been seeking.

I offer a complimentary thirty minute consultation so that I may learn about your situation and you may ask any questions you have regarding my work.

Heal your heart, transform your life!

I can be reached via email at illuminateandtransform@gmail.com

What If Nobody Cares?

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Dear ones the question, “What if nobody cares?” is the reason why you may be feeling as though you’re not progressing on your spiritual journey. Remember, it’s not about them, their opinion, their journey or their view of how you should live your life or progress on your spiritual journey, but it is about you. It’s all about you. The spiritual journey is highly personal and cannot be dictated by any one group or individual. The goal of the spiritual journey is always the same, to know thyself and thereby God with more intimacy. It’s about stripping off the paint and polish, the hurt, fear and disappointment and discovering what you have come to be in this lifetime and what gifts you have brought to share. Stop wondering what others are thinking about you, stop looking for their approval and stop allowing their opinion to determine your value. Instead get serious about your journey and begin to dig deep as you let go of the possibility that no one will care. You are perfect if they do care and you are perfect if they don’t because you are always perfect and you are on a journey toward completion. The journey to the center of yourself and to source.

Let’s, just for a minute, imagine that you occupy a world where nobody cares and then ask yourself, “Am I less because they don’t see my value? Do I have less to offer because others don’t care? And then, Do I need others to complete me or can I find completion inside of myself as I deepen my connection to source?” The answer is, of course. Each of you is a unit unto yourselves but you are also energetically interconnected so even through you may feel forgotten and isolated it is, in truth, impossible for any of you to go it alone or to exist in a world where no one cares. However, in order to fully recognize this truth you must take your eyes off of the physical world and place it on the often unseen energetic world. In the energetic world the truth of who you are and what the world is, is revealed. You see yourselves as physical beings, single contained units capable of functioning on your own and although the physical body you inhabit regulates the function of that body on an individual person by person basis, the energetic body of which you are comprised is constantly interacting with other energetic bodies and those physical objects that appear solid. In this way, it is impossible to exist alone for you are always intermingling your energies with those around you so the idea that you could exist in such a way or that you are truly isolated is false. In addition, what you interact with, you begin to care about. Even if the manner is offhand or dismissive there is still an element of caring operating at the subconscious level. Therefore, you may put your question to rest and dive into the process of making yourself the best version of yourself you can be.

At this time you may be wondering how you can move forward when you feel unsupported or ridiculed by others and this is one of those times when the only answer is, to let it go. Let go of other people’s opinions and do not allow then to determine how you are going to conduct your life. As we mentioned before the spiritual journey is personal; it cannot be undertaken to gain someone else’s approval. It can only be undertaken for your own sense of self. To that end it will be necessary for you to conduct a two part program. The first thing you must do is to bring to mind and release, every time you have failed, been hurt, lied to, taken advantage of or disappointed in some way. Bring to the surface all of those past hurts and take a good long look at them. Understand that work done in the sacred space of the spiritual cannot hurt you unless you give it permission to do so. Therefore, set the intention that you will take an honest look at what you’re holding onto and once you have observed it you can then determine if you’re ready to let it go. Take the time to address each one of these hurts lovingly, especially if they’ve been with you for a long time. Allow the hurt to express itself, have form and a voice. Take the time to understand why you have put so much of your time and energy into holding onto this negative energy. How has it served you? What has it contributed to your life and how has it held you back? You may find the incident is long forgotten but the behavior is practiced, an automatic reaction that you don’t think about, you just do. Once you examine everything that has been done to you, go back and do the same exercise with everything you have done to others. These actions would put you in the guilt, blame, shame, “What have you done?” category whereas the previous exercise was done with the energy of “What has been done to you,” and may feel more like “Why does nobody care?” but you must examine both sides of the equation if you’re going to experience both freedom and growth. You may need to do this exercise over and over again until you have stopped attaching to other people’s blame or you’re own feelings of guilt. Just remember, you’re not on a journey to an ending point, you’re on a journey of discovery so everything you discover about yourself along the way should be counted as treasure.

Once you have successfully removed even one area of regret or blame, one moment of hurt or disappointment you must now take further action. You have removed a negative, vibrational offering so you will not continuously attract more negativity but now is the time to be pro-active and put in the place of what you didn’t want something that you do want more of. Don’t leave your happiness up to chance, get busy and get going finding everything that feels good to you. Put your focus on what feels good and keep it there, refuse to take your concentration off of what’s right and you will fill your vibrational space with more right to feel good about. The better you feel, the more you’ll attract things to feel great about and when you are surrounded by great things it’s easier and easier to feel good all of the time. When you feel great you automatically call to yourself people who care deeply about you, who are interested in supporting you and then suddenly you stop wondering, “What if nobody cares?” because you’re too busy celebrating the good things in your life with people who care and make you feel even better about yourself.

Did the world change? Perhaps! But most definitely it was your change of focus, your determination to let go of the hurt and your commitment to seeing the good that has brought you to this place of joy. You always have the power to make your life better but you must take your eyes off of others and put them on you. Care about yourself, love yourself, lift yourself up and then when you are feeling confident and restored, share your ebullience with others.

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Spiritual Heart Healing with Marcia Martin M Ed, The Heart Healer, offers a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using my proprietary method: The Spiritual Heart Healing Technique, I guide you in accessing the memories of the heart that are holding you prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that is running in the background and sabotaging your life you experience true freedom.

My program targets the energetic heart center where every emotional memory and it’s triggers are stored. Once these memories are cleared and healed you are able to live life on your terms, as your authentic self, empowered to live your life on purpose as the person you came here to be.

By going into the darkness that exists in the unconscious and within the heart, I illuminate and transform your life. Healing from the heart, the most powerful energetic center in the human body enables you to experience the total transformation you’ve been seeking.

I offer a complimentary thirty minute consultation so that I may learn about your situation and you may ask any questions you have regarding my work.

Heal your heart, transform your life!

I can be reached via email at illuminateandtransform@gmail.com

 

Ascension: Can I Be Left Behind?

Ascension can I be left

Dear ones in the social construct that is the human experience there is a very real fear present. It is the fear that you will be left behind, left out or left alone. All of you need interaction with each other and none of you desire to be the one who is not included. This desire also extends to the idea of the ascension process so we want to answer you honestly. Yes, you can choose not to completely ascend but no you cannot choose to ascend and fail to do so. Whenever you look at something that is not to your liking, understand that first you agreed to participate in some way and second you may withdraw your permission any time you choose.

The planet has moved upward in it’s trajectory so everyone that chooses to take their personal ascension further now has an easier road to make that happen. Now before you begin saying that you didn’t agree to a planetary ascension we must stop and remind you that you must give consent before anything happens to you. This does not have to be a conscious agreement but if you look deeply into the subconscious level you will discover an agreement to participate. Before you came to this planet you understood that planetary ascension would happen in your lifetime. Knowing of this ascension you agreed to come into the physical form at this time on this planet. Even though you may not have mental recall of your choice, you still made the choice before you entered into the physical form, therefore, if you choose to immerse yourself in the darkness, that is rising to the surface and being exposed to the eyes of all, then that is your choice and your personal assent will not continue until you make the choice to let go of that darkness. You may feel that that is unfair because you’re being left behind but the path of ascension is toward the light of God and unconditional love. None of you may serve two masters. You must choose to step fully into the dark or to emerge fully into the light and be prepared to do the work necessary to function within which ever path you take. Remember, the dark can be a valuable tool in helping you discover what you don’t want. However, you cannot go searching for love with hate in your heart. Decide what it is that you do want and then commit to doing exactly that. But do not try to be half in one and half in the other and wonder why you are making no progress.

The journey of ascension is one in which you agree to do deep internal work, you agree to meet your authentic self and you agree to let go of everything that is no longer serving you. This does not mean that life will become magically ideal but it does mean that you will have the opportunity to become more fully alive with every decision you make to pursue the light. Yes, there will be times when the going will be rough and you’ll feel as though you’ve fallen behind but pay no mind to the progress of others, put your attention  solely on yourself and your own journey and know that you are going to progress at the rate that is best for you. It matters not what others are doing, it matters only what you are doing to move yourself in the direction you want to go. Keep in mind that the choice of direction is up to you but realize that every choice brings with it a reaction, a set of events that you have set in motion due to that choice. Therefore, we invite you  to make contemplative choices and not random or knee jerk choices.

If you choose the path of ascension you will be challenged to let go of all false and limiting beliefs that are currently holding you captive. The reason you want to review and release anything that no longer seems true to you is so you will have room in your energetic field for new information and ideas that will encourage you to grow in a positive direction. If you choose to hold on to all of your current attitudes you will slow your growth and you will watch as others grow into the people they came here to be for ascension is all about growing closer to source by embodying your authentic self. When you are operating from your place of authenticity you don’t have to try to be anyone or anything, you’re content being the fullest expression of yourself in whatever way that manifests for you. You will no longer feel that you have to keep up or compete with anyone because you’re content as you are. You will also gain a deeper connection with source energy and a greater feeling of unity with the world at large. This is because the journey to ascension is always moving you closer to God and further away from the notion that you are separate.

If you decide that the journey of ascension is too difficult it can be your choice to quit. There will be no punishment from God but you will be responsible for the repercussions of that choice. First you may see friends and family members reaching a level of confidence and contentment that you wish you could attain. Second, their lives may begin to flow with a kind of ease that is eluding you and third you may find that their interests have become more global and less self-focused. Do not make the mistake of believing that they have been given something you were denied. No you must understand that ascension is open to all who are willing to do the work to participate. However, it is not something which will be handed to you while you cling to your old fears and beliefs.

As you are ready begin digging deep into you and examining all that you hold dear. Now ask yourself, “Is this belief serving me or harming me?” Now be brave enough to let go of all that does not serve you as you open yourself to the discovery of new beliefs that will support you, lift you and propel you forward into a life that feels good, that feels authentic and feels as though you have found your purpose and your reason to be.

Only you can move yourself forward and only you can allow yourself to be left behind.

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Spiritual Heart Healing with Marcia Martin M Ed, The Heart Healer, offers a breakthrough in gentle transformation. Using my proprietary method: The Spiritual Heart Healing Technique, I guide you in accessing the memories of the heart that are holding you prisoner. By eliminating the unconscious program that is running in the background and sabotaging your life you experience true freedom.

My program targets the energetic heart center where every emotional memory and it’s triggers are stored. Once these memories are cleared and healed you are able to live life on your terms, as your authentic self, empowered to live your life on purpose as the person you came here to be.

By going into the darkness that exists in the unconscious and within the heart, I illuminate and transform your life. Healing from the heart, the most powerful energetic center in the human body enables you to experience the total transformation you’ve been seeking.

I offer a complimentary thirty minute consultation so that I may learn about your situation and you may ask any questions you have regarding my work.

Heal your heart, transform your life!

I can be reached via email at illuminateandtransform@gmail.com